Grocery stores are great places to meet women – they gotta buy food,
right? And it offers a great opportunity for you to seem like a helpless
male who needs a little feminine wisdom to get him through.
Here’s the plan: Go up to a woman who’s browsing meat (or looking at
fruit or reading labels on laundry detergent or whatever). For instance,
if it’s meat, look over the meat, too, picking some up and reading the
labels then setting it back. Turn to her and say, “I’m hopeless at this,
I can never pick good steaks. It’s always too tough or too fatty or
just not fresh. Can you help me out?”
Women love giving advice, and you just gave her a golden opportunity
she can’t refuse. She’ll give some tips. Ask her questions, like what
color to look for, if you should buy leaner cuts, etc. When she’s done
and you’ve selected some steaks or a package of hamburger or whatever,
say, “Thanks so much, I really appreciate this. This may be the first
good meal I’ve had in ages. Let me repay you – let me make you dinner.
You already know I’ve got good steak.” She’ll be a little taken by
surprise, but very pleased with the attention.
Say, “By the way, I’m Doug. And what can I call you?” She may accept
the dinner invitation and if so, great, get the number and start
planning that menu! But since she doesn’t really know you well, she may
hesitate to go to your house for a meal. So if she seems a bit
reluctant, say, “You know, I know you really don’t know me and might be
shy about coming to my place for dinner so soon. So how about I take you
out for a nice meal, and then you can see what a harmless guy I am, and
maybe later I’ll cook you that dinner. Come on, you’ve got nothing to
lose and you’ll gain a free dinner at the restaurant of your choice.
Besides, I owe you. Your advice has saved me from a lifetime of eating
bad cuts of meat. You’ve got to let me pay you back.” She’ll be
flattered and laughing at this point, and most likely writing down those
digits for you!
If you met talking over fruit or laundry detergent, you obviously
can’t offer to cook that up for her (well, you could, but you’ll score
crazy points instead of brownie points). But you can still thank her and
offer to pay her back by going for a cup of coffee or dinner sometime.
Play up how she’s saved you from wearing horribly dingy clothes by
helping with that detergent or saved you from catching God knows what
kind of rare tropical disease imparted by eating squishy, bad fruit.
Make a joke, get her laughing, and get those digits! Supermarket scores
are great, because women love it when they think a man who was just
minding his business, doing shopping, saw her and was so taken that he
couldn’t help but make a move. Female vanity has its uses, fellas!
Target the Shy Girls for Easy Pickings
In any group of girls, there’s usually one who’s getting all the
attention. You know, she’s really animated, talking a lot, outgoing, a
lot of guys are hitting on her. You can bet some of the other girls in
the group are kind of shy and are feeling left out and a bit jealous –
and they’re dying for their share of attention! Give it to them, and it
will be like throwing them a lifeline – they’ll cling on to you to save
them from the horror of being a chick in the shadow of some other woman!
Here’s what you do: Scope out the girl in the group who seems kind of shy, who’s looking around for attention but can’t seem to get any because her girlfriend is dancing on the tabletops or just being really loud and boisterous – and being hit on by every guy in the place. Go up to your shy girl and say, “I just can’t believe it.” She’ll say, “What?” “I can’t believe why everyone is making such a fuss over your friend when there’s such a beautiful woman sitting over here in the corner. We need to do something about that. Can I join you?”
She’ll be very flattered, and thankful someone noticed her! Ask her name, give her yours, and offer to buy a drink. Make sure you don’t say anything negative about her loud, flirty friend – this will turn her off. Give her the attention she’s been craving, tell her she’s got beautiful eyes. Ask her about herself, what she does for a living, where she lives – women love to talk as much as they love compliments, and they love it when someone takes an interest. And after seeing her friend be the one to get the spotlight all night, she’ll lap up the attention like crazy.
Tell her you enjoyed meeting her and would like to take her out sometime, then get her number. She’ll be all too happy to give it – handing over a phone number will show her friends that she’s getting male attention, too! She’ll be thankful you saved her from sitting unnoticed, and you’ll be on your way to one very hot date with a very grateful gal!
Here’s what you do: Scope out the girl in the group who seems kind of shy, who’s looking around for attention but can’t seem to get any because her girlfriend is dancing on the tabletops or just being really loud and boisterous – and being hit on by every guy in the place. Go up to your shy girl and say, “I just can’t believe it.” She’ll say, “What?” “I can’t believe why everyone is making such a fuss over your friend when there’s such a beautiful woman sitting over here in the corner. We need to do something about that. Can I join you?”
She’ll be very flattered, and thankful someone noticed her! Ask her name, give her yours, and offer to buy a drink. Make sure you don’t say anything negative about her loud, flirty friend – this will turn her off. Give her the attention she’s been craving, tell her she’s got beautiful eyes. Ask her about herself, what she does for a living, where she lives – women love to talk as much as they love compliments, and they love it when someone takes an interest. And after seeing her friend be the one to get the spotlight all night, she’ll lap up the attention like crazy.
Tell her you enjoyed meeting her and would like to take her out sometime, then get her number. She’ll be all too happy to give it – handing over a phone number will show her friends that she’s getting male attention, too! She’ll be thankful you saved her from sitting unnoticed, and you’ll be on your way to one very hot date with a very grateful gal!
The Name and Flower Bluff
Think you’ve got to be great looking to get a woman’s attention?
Wrong! If you know what to say and do, you can have any woman dying to
be at your side. This is a little devious, but what’s the harm? Try
this: Go up to a woman and ask her, “How’s work, Susan?” She’ll tell you
she’s not Susan. “Oh, you’re not Susan Moore who works at the Citizens’
Bank?” She’ll say something like, “No, I’m Karen Miller that works at
Landover Real Estate.” Then just say, “Oh, well I’m Doug Jones (offer to
shake hands), and I’m sorry for the mistake.” Smile and walk away.
In two or three days, send flowers to her at her work place. Include a card saying, “We just met for a moment, but I can’t stop thinking about you. Meet me for a drink after work? Doug.” Include your phone number, too, just in case she wants to call and thank you before you get in touch with her. And believe me, she’ll want to thank you. And you’ll score major brownie points because she’ll be thrilled to get flowers at work – all the other women in the office will be buzzing around wondering who sent them, and the object of your desire will be excited by the surprise and by the attention from her co-workers. Give her a call later that day after you know the flowers have arrived, and say, “Hi, this is Doug. Remember me, I’m the one at the dry cleaners (or wherever you met her) who mistook you for Susan from the bank? Did you get the flowers?” She’ll say yes, tell you they’re beautiful and unexpected. Say, “I know this is a little crazy, out of the blue and all, but you just seemed so nice, and I was kicking myself that I didn’t ask you out before. I know we don’t really know each other, but I’d like to change that. How about going for that drink later?”
She may not remember you well, after all, she only met you for a minute, but man oh man is she ever going to be flattered! Someone is telling her she’s so hot that after a few seconds in her presence, he can’t stop thinking about her and is sending flowers?! Women eat that stuff up, they think flowers are so thoughtful and romantic! How could she turn down a drink with someone so thoughtful, someone who made her feel gorgeous? She can’t! Besides, she’d feel ungrateful if she didn’t at least give you a shot. This is a piece of cake pick-up technique, and it makes you seem like Prince Charming! Like taking candy from a baby, fellas, trust me.
In two or three days, send flowers to her at her work place. Include a card saying, “We just met for a moment, but I can’t stop thinking about you. Meet me for a drink after work? Doug.” Include your phone number, too, just in case she wants to call and thank you before you get in touch with her. And believe me, she’ll want to thank you. And you’ll score major brownie points because she’ll be thrilled to get flowers at work – all the other women in the office will be buzzing around wondering who sent them, and the object of your desire will be excited by the surprise and by the attention from her co-workers. Give her a call later that day after you know the flowers have arrived, and say, “Hi, this is Doug. Remember me, I’m the one at the dry cleaners (or wherever you met her) who mistook you for Susan from the bank? Did you get the flowers?” She’ll say yes, tell you they’re beautiful and unexpected. Say, “I know this is a little crazy, out of the blue and all, but you just seemed so nice, and I was kicking myself that I didn’t ask you out before. I know we don’t really know each other, but I’d like to change that. How about going for that drink later?”
She may not remember you well, after all, she only met you for a minute, but man oh man is she ever going to be flattered! Someone is telling her she’s so hot that after a few seconds in her presence, he can’t stop thinking about her and is sending flowers?! Women eat that stuff up, they think flowers are so thoughtful and romantic! How could she turn down a drink with someone so thoughtful, someone who made her feel gorgeous? She can’t! Besides, she’d feel ungrateful if she didn’t at least give you a shot. This is a piece of cake pick-up technique, and it makes you seem like Prince Charming! Like taking candy from a baby, fellas, trust me.
Seduce the Ladies by Asking for a Hand
Ok dudes, if you want to meet the ladies, sometimes it helps to get a little extreme. Unique can be a good thing.
Go to a clothing store, like a department store that sells clothes for men and women. Find a spot in the men’s section that’s nearest to the women’s clothes. Look through the racks, grabbing a few things you’d like to try on. When you spot a babe you’d like to meet, make your move.
Go over to her, and say, “Excuse me, but you look like you really know how to dress. I’ve been shopping all day, and I just can’t find anything. You obviously know about clothes, could you give me an opinion?” You can say you’re trying to find something for work, like dressy casual, or just say you’re terrible at picking out clothes and ask her to help you find the right shirts and jeans or suit or whatever it is that you really are interested in buying. Just pick the type of clothes that you would want to wear with this woman on your first date – if you want to go to a movie, nice jeans and shirt would do, or if you want to impress her with a nice restaurant or the theater, be shopping for this kind of outfit. Because a date is what you’re really going to need the clothes for, but she doesn’t know it yet! So you’ve complimented her taste in clothes – score brownie points! – and you’ve asked her advice – score more points, because women love to give advice!
Women also love to shop, and now they get to help you shop. That’s an offer too good to refuse.So show her what you’ve picked out, ask what she thinks of the styles and colors. Maybe she’ll go and pick some different things from a rack. Then say, “This is so great, would you mind if I tried these on so you could tell me what you think?” Women love that, too! Why do you think they go to stores in groups? They want to try on clothes and they want to help their friends pick stuff out, too. It’s like 2-for-1 shopping, a double fix!
So once she settles on what you look best in, thank her. “Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. I mean it, you’ve really helped me a lot. Let me make it up to you. How about dinner next week? Come on, you already know I’ve got something decent to wear.”She’ll be flattered and laughing at your joke. And she’ll be thrilled she found a man who let her pick out his clothes! You’re in, and you won’t have the added stress of figuring out what to wear on the first date! This is a 2-for-1 special for you, too!
Go to a clothing store, like a department store that sells clothes for men and women. Find a spot in the men’s section that’s nearest to the women’s clothes. Look through the racks, grabbing a few things you’d like to try on. When you spot a babe you’d like to meet, make your move.
Go over to her, and say, “Excuse me, but you look like you really know how to dress. I’ve been shopping all day, and I just can’t find anything. You obviously know about clothes, could you give me an opinion?” You can say you’re trying to find something for work, like dressy casual, or just say you’re terrible at picking out clothes and ask her to help you find the right shirts and jeans or suit or whatever it is that you really are interested in buying. Just pick the type of clothes that you would want to wear with this woman on your first date – if you want to go to a movie, nice jeans and shirt would do, or if you want to impress her with a nice restaurant or the theater, be shopping for this kind of outfit. Because a date is what you’re really going to need the clothes for, but she doesn’t know it yet! So you’ve complimented her taste in clothes – score brownie points! – and you’ve asked her advice – score more points, because women love to give advice!
Women also love to shop, and now they get to help you shop. That’s an offer too good to refuse.So show her what you’ve picked out, ask what she thinks of the styles and colors. Maybe she’ll go and pick some different things from a rack. Then say, “This is so great, would you mind if I tried these on so you could tell me what you think?” Women love that, too! Why do you think they go to stores in groups? They want to try on clothes and they want to help their friends pick stuff out, too. It’s like 2-for-1 shopping, a double fix!
So once she settles on what you look best in, thank her. “Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. I mean it, you’ve really helped me a lot. Let me make it up to you. How about dinner next week? Come on, you already know I’ve got something decent to wear.”She’ll be flattered and laughing at your joke. And she’ll be thrilled she found a man who let her pick out his clothes! You’re in, and you won’t have the added stress of figuring out what to wear on the first date! This is a 2-for-1 special for you, too!
Pickup in the Park Using Your Dog
Check this out – You want hot babes dying to give you their number?
Hell, yeah, you do! Tired of always having to chase after them? Of
course you are! So why not get them to come to you?
There’s a simple trick that has the babes flocking to you. It’s as easy as a walk in the park – if you bring a dog along for the stroll, that is.
Yeah, you’ve heard about dogs being a babe magnet – because it’s true! Time to start believing it and try it out for yourself. And if you don’t have a dog, be the nice guy and offer to take a friend’s pooch for a walk once in a while. The dog doesn’t have to belong to you to have that same magnetic effect on women.
It works like this: Woman sees man with cute, furry dog. Woman can’t resist going up to pet and talk to dog. Woman is feeling all warm and fuzzy and friendly and starts asking man about dog. “He’s so cute! What’s his name? What kind is he? Can I pet him?” All you have to do is be ready with the basic info. Like, “Thanks, his name’s Butch. He’s no kind, just a mutt, aren’t ya boy? But he’s a sweet mutt. Go ahead; he loves to be petted by beautiful women.”
From here, ask if she has pets, learn about them, what kind, their names. If she doesn’t have a dog now, ask if she ever did. Find out about it, then ask her advice on your dog. Like, “Since you used to have a dog, maybe you’ll know this, but Butch wants to bark all night long. Any idea what I should do?” This doesn’t have to be the exact question, just pick something where she can give advice and an opinion. She’ll feel needed, and you just have to act interested and impressed with the advice.
If she never had a dog, share a fuzzy story about the dog and why they make good pets. Then say, “Ya know, Butch is really digging you. He never takes to strangers like this. I think he’d be really disappointed if he didn’t get to see you again. Care to join us here for a picnic tomorrow?” Now you’ve been sweet and flattering and funny in one fell stroke, and the woman will be eating out of the palm of your hand. Get her number, set a date. Just pack some wine and a blanket with that picnic basket, and you’ll be ready to rock!
There’s a simple trick that has the babes flocking to you. It’s as easy as a walk in the park – if you bring a dog along for the stroll, that is.
Yeah, you’ve heard about dogs being a babe magnet – because it’s true! Time to start believing it and try it out for yourself. And if you don’t have a dog, be the nice guy and offer to take a friend’s pooch for a walk once in a while. The dog doesn’t have to belong to you to have that same magnetic effect on women.
It works like this: Woman sees man with cute, furry dog. Woman can’t resist going up to pet and talk to dog. Woman is feeling all warm and fuzzy and friendly and starts asking man about dog. “He’s so cute! What’s his name? What kind is he? Can I pet him?” All you have to do is be ready with the basic info. Like, “Thanks, his name’s Butch. He’s no kind, just a mutt, aren’t ya boy? But he’s a sweet mutt. Go ahead; he loves to be petted by beautiful women.”
From here, ask if she has pets, learn about them, what kind, their names. If she doesn’t have a dog now, ask if she ever did. Find out about it, then ask her advice on your dog. Like, “Since you used to have a dog, maybe you’ll know this, but Butch wants to bark all night long. Any idea what I should do?” This doesn’t have to be the exact question, just pick something where she can give advice and an opinion. She’ll feel needed, and you just have to act interested and impressed with the advice.
If she never had a dog, share a fuzzy story about the dog and why they make good pets. Then say, “Ya know, Butch is really digging you. He never takes to strangers like this. I think he’d be really disappointed if he didn’t get to see you again. Care to join us here for a picnic tomorrow?” Now you’ve been sweet and flattering and funny in one fell stroke, and the woman will be eating out of the palm of your hand. Get her number, set a date. Just pack some wine and a blanket with that picnic basket, and you’ll be ready to rock!
The Laundromat Pickup
Ok, you’ve probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places,
better than a singles bar – that’s because they are! Maybe not better,
but certainly a great alternative that’s just as good. You can pretend
your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that you’re not on the make.
The woman won’t have that feeling like you’re just trying to pick her up
if you strike up a chat here – even if that’s exactly what you’re
doing!
What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love to give advice – especially to “helpless” men! First of all, pick a good Laundromat – meaning one where you’ve seen lots of attractive women who aren’t dragging a bunch of kids with them or wearing wedding rings.
Basically, pick one in a neighborhood with lots of young, single women – they’ll be using the Laundromat close to home. And don’t worry if you already have a washing machine at home, it’s worth the trip out and a little change to meet women! If you meet someone that eventually makes it back to your place and discovers you have a machine at home, just tell her it was broken, or better yet, be honest and say you went to the Laundromat hoping to meet someone, and that was the best decision you ever made because you met her.
But let’s back up, first you’ve got to meet her! So go to the Laundromat with your basket of clothes – no detergent. Make sure you don’t bring anything a woman might find disgusting – like really dingy, holey underwear, badly stained
T-shirts, or socks that used to be white but now look like you walked through mud in them. However, something slightly stained won’t hurt – like a grass stain on your jeans or chocolate sauce on a shirt. You can use this later to help with the conversation
Go in, plop your laundry basket down on a machine near one or more ladies you wouldn’t mind picking up, and start digging through the basket like you’re looking for something. Then say out loud to yourself, “Oh, man, I forgot the detergent!” Laundromats usually have a vending machine selling detergent, so go over and start browsing. Act like you don’t know which one to pick, then go to the woman you want to chat up and say, “Excuse me, they don’t have my regular detergent here and I don’t know what to use. Can you help me pick one out?” Women can’t resist an opportunity to give advice, and they love the idea that men might be helpless when it comes to some chores, like laundry. This is where, if you’ve got the grass stain or whatever, you can bring that up and say you don’t know what to do to get it out. She may come over and show you how to rub detergent on the stain, etc.
After you get the detergent, go back to your machine, fumble around, and go back to her and say, “I’m sorry to keep bothering you, but these machines are different than what I’m used to and I don’t know what setting to use. Could you give me a hand? I’m sorry to seem so helpless.” Milk the helpless bit for all it’s worth. Ask her how much detergent to use, what colors you can wash together, and what temperature to set the water at – whatever you can think of.
Also, if the Laundromat doesn’t have a vending machine for detergent, ask the woman if you can borrow some of hers. Insist on paying her back by paying for her washing or dryer use. Either way, once you’ve got her talking, keep chatting about clothes as long as that stays interesting – once it starts to get lame and boring, ditch the topic!
Make sure and introduce yourself and get her name, then start asking her about herself. Find out where she works, what she does for fun, what movies or bands she likes, what her favorite types of food are. You can use that info as she’s packing up her clothes to leave – Say, “Thanks so much for the help. I’d love to pay you back by taking you out for some Italian food (or going to hear that band you like, or see that movie you said you’d been dying to see.)”
And one last thing, be ready with an explanation of why you’re using this particular Laundromat if it’s not in your neighborhood, just in case she asks. Make sure you pick one that’s not too far from home, and just say the one in your neighborhood was full and you didn’t want to wait for a machine. Now grab some change, a pile of dirty clothes, and get ready to bag that babe!
What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love to give advice – especially to “helpless” men! First of all, pick a good Laundromat – meaning one where you’ve seen lots of attractive women who aren’t dragging a bunch of kids with them or wearing wedding rings.
Basically, pick one in a neighborhood with lots of young, single women – they’ll be using the Laundromat close to home. And don’t worry if you already have a washing machine at home, it’s worth the trip out and a little change to meet women! If you meet someone that eventually makes it back to your place and discovers you have a machine at home, just tell her it was broken, or better yet, be honest and say you went to the Laundromat hoping to meet someone, and that was the best decision you ever made because you met her.
But let’s back up, first you’ve got to meet her! So go to the Laundromat with your basket of clothes – no detergent. Make sure you don’t bring anything a woman might find disgusting – like really dingy, holey underwear, badly stained
T-shirts, or socks that used to be white but now look like you walked through mud in them. However, something slightly stained won’t hurt – like a grass stain on your jeans or chocolate sauce on a shirt. You can use this later to help with the conversation
Go in, plop your laundry basket down on a machine near one or more ladies you wouldn’t mind picking up, and start digging through the basket like you’re looking for something. Then say out loud to yourself, “Oh, man, I forgot the detergent!” Laundromats usually have a vending machine selling detergent, so go over and start browsing. Act like you don’t know which one to pick, then go to the woman you want to chat up and say, “Excuse me, they don’t have my regular detergent here and I don’t know what to use. Can you help me pick one out?” Women can’t resist an opportunity to give advice, and they love the idea that men might be helpless when it comes to some chores, like laundry. This is where, if you’ve got the grass stain or whatever, you can bring that up and say you don’t know what to do to get it out. She may come over and show you how to rub detergent on the stain, etc.
After you get the detergent, go back to your machine, fumble around, and go back to her and say, “I’m sorry to keep bothering you, but these machines are different than what I’m used to and I don’t know what setting to use. Could you give me a hand? I’m sorry to seem so helpless.” Milk the helpless bit for all it’s worth. Ask her how much detergent to use, what colors you can wash together, and what temperature to set the water at – whatever you can think of.
Also, if the Laundromat doesn’t have a vending machine for detergent, ask the woman if you can borrow some of hers. Insist on paying her back by paying for her washing or dryer use. Either way, once you’ve got her talking, keep chatting about clothes as long as that stays interesting – once it starts to get lame and boring, ditch the topic!
Make sure and introduce yourself and get her name, then start asking her about herself. Find out where she works, what she does for fun, what movies or bands she likes, what her favorite types of food are. You can use that info as she’s packing up her clothes to leave – Say, “Thanks so much for the help. I’d love to pay you back by taking you out for some Italian food (or going to hear that band you like, or see that movie you said you’d been dying to see.)”
And one last thing, be ready with an explanation of why you’re using this particular Laundromat if it’s not in your neighborhood, just in case she asks. Make sure you pick one that’s not too far from home, and just say the one in your neighborhood was full and you didn’t want to wait for a machine. Now grab some change, a pile of dirty clothes, and get ready to bag that babe!
Fishing For Women With A Wingman
Want to pick up women? Get a friend to help you out! First, stand or
sit a few feet away from a woman or group of women and seem to be having
a light-hearted, joking disagreement with your pal. “You’re wrong!”
“No, you are!” “I’m telling you, you don’t know what you’re talking
about!” Then keep talking, but a little quieter so that the girl
probably won’t hear, then say, “Fine by me!” Remember, don’t act really
angry, act like a couple of friends jokingly disputing a small thing.
Now, go up to the woman you like (if she’s with a friend, either your buddy can try to pick up her friend or he can play wing man and keep the friend occupied while you hit on your babe) and say, “Excuse me, but we’re trying to settle a bet and we really need your help. We have agreed to let you settle the argument, and we’ll abide by whatever you say.” Now you’ve really got her attention, because she’s dying of curiosity to know what the bet is, and she’s flattered that you’re putting her in charge of casting the deciding vote for the argument.
Then ask something like, “Ok, my buddy here says Marsha was the oldest daughter on The Brady Bunch, but I know she was the middle one.” Your pal can jump in here and say, “No way!” You don’t have to use The Brady Bunch, just pick some show that was a huge hit within the last 20 or 30 years that people still talk about and joke about, and that’s still played in reruns on TV.
Don’t pick anything obscure – go for something that everybody knows the answer to. Other choices might be shows like “Cheers,” and you can bet that Norm was the name of the postman, while your friend thinks it was Cliff. Just pick something that for your age group and where you live, everybody is going to know the answer.
If you pick a current show it won’t work as well, because it will seem like a set up if you don’t know the name of the biggest star on the biggest hit show on air now. But people do jokingly argue about things in older shows, and the nostalgia value of a show you loved growing up can get you – and the girl you want – laughing at the memory.
So now she’ll say something like, “I hate to break this to you, but your friend is right. Marsha was the oldest daughter.” Act a little shocked or let down, like, “Ah man! Are you sure? Well, all right, a bet’s a bet. It looks like I’m the one buying the next round,” you say this last part to your friend, making sure to smile and shake your head, maybe patting him on the shoulder – real friendly and casual.
The woman’s probably laughing about the whole bet over a cheesy TV show – but that means she’s also entertained and enjoying herself. Now turn back to the woman and say, “Thanks for helping us out, we could’ve argued that all night. Seriously, we are that crazy! Let me pay you back, what are you drinking?” When she tells you and you order the drink, say, “Do you mind if we join you?” Since you’ve already made her laugh with your funny bet and you’ve bought her a drink, she won’t refuse a seat at her table.
Make very sure that while you’re “arguing” the point with your friend before you talk to the woman in the first place that you don’t mention specifically what the bet is about – someone else may overhear and jump in to offer the answer, blowing your plan.
The great thing about this conversation starter, though, is it can work lots of places – it doesn’t have to be a bar. You can do this in a coffee shop and offer to buy a cup of coffee, you can do this in a fast food restaurant and say you owe the pal a beer or a coffee, then ask the ladies to join you (this may mean moving on to a coffee shop or bar, which is just fine!), and you can even do it in a park. There you’d say the bet was for a drink or snack of some sort from a street vender (if there is one in the park), or that you were heading to the coffee shop around the corner, and get her to come, too
Now, go up to the woman you like (if she’s with a friend, either your buddy can try to pick up her friend or he can play wing man and keep the friend occupied while you hit on your babe) and say, “Excuse me, but we’re trying to settle a bet and we really need your help. We have agreed to let you settle the argument, and we’ll abide by whatever you say.” Now you’ve really got her attention, because she’s dying of curiosity to know what the bet is, and she’s flattered that you’re putting her in charge of casting the deciding vote for the argument.
Then ask something like, “Ok, my buddy here says Marsha was the oldest daughter on The Brady Bunch, but I know she was the middle one.” Your pal can jump in here and say, “No way!” You don’t have to use The Brady Bunch, just pick some show that was a huge hit within the last 20 or 30 years that people still talk about and joke about, and that’s still played in reruns on TV.
Don’t pick anything obscure – go for something that everybody knows the answer to. Other choices might be shows like “Cheers,” and you can bet that Norm was the name of the postman, while your friend thinks it was Cliff. Just pick something that for your age group and where you live, everybody is going to know the answer.
If you pick a current show it won’t work as well, because it will seem like a set up if you don’t know the name of the biggest star on the biggest hit show on air now. But people do jokingly argue about things in older shows, and the nostalgia value of a show you loved growing up can get you – and the girl you want – laughing at the memory.
So now she’ll say something like, “I hate to break this to you, but your friend is right. Marsha was the oldest daughter.” Act a little shocked or let down, like, “Ah man! Are you sure? Well, all right, a bet’s a bet. It looks like I’m the one buying the next round,” you say this last part to your friend, making sure to smile and shake your head, maybe patting him on the shoulder – real friendly and casual.
The woman’s probably laughing about the whole bet over a cheesy TV show – but that means she’s also entertained and enjoying herself. Now turn back to the woman and say, “Thanks for helping us out, we could’ve argued that all night. Seriously, we are that crazy! Let me pay you back, what are you drinking?” When she tells you and you order the drink, say, “Do you mind if we join you?” Since you’ve already made her laugh with your funny bet and you’ve bought her a drink, she won’t refuse a seat at her table.
Make very sure that while you’re “arguing” the point with your friend before you talk to the woman in the first place that you don’t mention specifically what the bet is about – someone else may overhear and jump in to offer the answer, blowing your plan.
The great thing about this conversation starter, though, is it can work lots of places – it doesn’t have to be a bar. You can do this in a coffee shop and offer to buy a cup of coffee, you can do this in a fast food restaurant and say you owe the pal a beer or a coffee, then ask the ladies to join you (this may mean moving on to a coffee shop or bar, which is just fine!), and you can even do it in a park. There you’d say the bet was for a drink or snack of some sort from a street vender (if there is one in the park), or that you were heading to the coffee shop around the corner, and get her to come, too
How to Pick Up Girls: The Power of ‘Yes’
Everyone, male or female, feels an important need to be consistent in
the things they say, do and feel. If we’re flaky and liable to change
at the drop of a hat what we believe or have promised, we know that
people are likely to judge and mistrust us. This commonly felt sense of
importance regarding the need to be consistent within ourselves can be
exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. One seduction technique
that makes use of this concept is called ‘The Power of Yes’.
Here’s a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, you’re enjoying each other’s company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl you’re talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isn’t the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a ‘closer’.
A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girl’s number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social “getting to know you” line. Thing is, you don’t want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, ‘The Power of Yes’ technique. The technique involves getting the girl you’re interacting with to give several positive ‘yes’ responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.
You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: “Really?” and “Do you?” Match your response to what she’s just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that you’re sure will prompt a ‘yes’ response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work.
At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before you’re about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or “no” responses from the female.
The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article – that people feel it’s important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation they’re in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the female’s mind for saying ‘yes’ – she’s gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding “Yes!”…it just feels right.
Here’s a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, you’re enjoying each other’s company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl you’re talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isn’t the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a ‘closer’.
A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girl’s number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social “getting to know you” line. Thing is, you don’t want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, ‘The Power of Yes’ technique. The technique involves getting the girl you’re interacting with to give several positive ‘yes’ responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.
You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: “Really?” and “Do you?” Match your response to what she’s just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that you’re sure will prompt a ‘yes’ response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work.
At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before you’re about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or “no” responses from the female.
The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article – that people feel it’s important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation they’re in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the female’s mind for saying ‘yes’ – she’s gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding “Yes!”…it just feels right.
The Art of Seduction by Conversation: Using ‘The Add-On Principle’ to Get the Girl
Persuasion is a universally recognizable component of our society.
You see people influencing others everywhere you go: women trying to
talk themselves out of speeding tickets, salesmen attempting to convince
a potential buyer that a product’s for them, defense attorneys arguing
that their client is innocent – persuasion is everywhere, used by all of
us, all the time.
Somewhere it’s especially noticeable (and vital, if you want to be successful) is in the game of attraction and seduction. For a man to pick-up a girl – that is: find, approach, talk to her and arrange to take it further – he MUST understand and be able to use persuasive psychology. And it’s that fact many men are surprised by when they hear it – that being successful with women isn’t a God given talent or a roll of the dice; it’s a skill like anything else. Today you’re going to learn a little about that skill. We’re going to look at a special persuasive psychological technique that, when used, massively increases your chances with the ladies. It’s called ‘The Add-On Principle’.
Picture the scene: You’ve got talking to a girl and been chatting for a little while. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and think that she’s quite attracted to you, too. You decide you’d like to make something happen with this girl and see her again real soon but you aren’t sure of the best way to go about making that a reality. You don’t want to ruin the positive dynamic that you’ve worked so hard to create and you definitely don’t want to scare her off or get rejected. So, what can you do?
Well, first of all, what do most guys do when they’re in this situation? I’ll tell you, they take one of three routes:
Route #1: CLICHÉD NUMBER REQUEST. The first route has been taken so many millions of times in the past that it’s nowadays almost an act of parody – it’s asking the girl for her number. Taking this route is, 9 times out of 10, a Plan B at best. When you ask a girl for her number you not only give her control of the situation (which means she can very easily say no or slip you a phoney number), you also highlight that moment of the conversation as what it really is: an attempt at picking her up. When she realizes this, she’s turned off. No girl likes the idea of being picked-up because it seems sleazy and dangerous. For a girl to allow herself to be picked up, it must feel natural and unforced.
Route #2: GOING FOR IT. This route’s most often taken at night, in bars, clubs and parties – namely because the availability of alcohol makes this option seem a good idea. ‘Going for it’ means a guy will try to kiss the girl or cop a feel a little while after talking to her. Perhaps he’ll do it while they dance or as the venue is closing and they’re leaving. Again, it’s a bad idea because it makes the girl feel used and not in control.
Route #3: BOTTLING IT. This option, quite simply, involves choking at the last second – being unable to go through with a ‘closer’. The conversation’s gone great but the guy just doesn’t feel confident enough to propose meeting up again or something along those lines. As you can imagine, taking this route is a bad idea in regards to being successful with women.
So what do you do? The three routes above are bad, so what route can you take? Well, it goes without saying that you HAVE to run the risk of using a ‘closer’ if you want to see the girl again. Therefore, your goal is to make your offer – in whatever form it might take – seem like a natural, obvious, fun option for the girl to take.
To achieve this, you should justify what you’re suggesting with a REASON you should both do it. For example: “Let’s swap numbers so we can talk about that book we both like.” Or, “We should get a coffee or hot chocolate some time, because I know a great little place that’s just opened and think you’d really like it.” When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a reason for doing it (to talk about something or because you know a nice little new place) you make the offer seem ATTRACTIVE and a NATURAL thing for the girl to say yes to. This is the essence of ‘The Add-On Principle’.
When you employ it, try to always use the words “So” and “Because.” Our minds, when we hear these words, associate them with good reasons, they back things up for us in our heads. You can use this principle any time you want a suggestion you’ve made to a girl to be accepted and agreed to. For example: “Shall we go over and look at the jukebox, so we can put on some tunes we both like?” You’re taking away any hard work the girl needs to do in deciding whether or not she wants to go ahead with what you’re suggesting, simply because you’ve already given her a valid, natural-sounding reason to say “YES!”
Try it…you’ll be amazed at the results.
Somewhere it’s especially noticeable (and vital, if you want to be successful) is in the game of attraction and seduction. For a man to pick-up a girl – that is: find, approach, talk to her and arrange to take it further – he MUST understand and be able to use persuasive psychology. And it’s that fact many men are surprised by when they hear it – that being successful with women isn’t a God given talent or a roll of the dice; it’s a skill like anything else. Today you’re going to learn a little about that skill. We’re going to look at a special persuasive psychological technique that, when used, massively increases your chances with the ladies. It’s called ‘The Add-On Principle’.
Picture the scene: You’ve got talking to a girl and been chatting for a little while. You can tell she’s enjoying the conversation and think that she’s quite attracted to you, too. You decide you’d like to make something happen with this girl and see her again real soon but you aren’t sure of the best way to go about making that a reality. You don’t want to ruin the positive dynamic that you’ve worked so hard to create and you definitely don’t want to scare her off or get rejected. So, what can you do?
Well, first of all, what do most guys do when they’re in this situation? I’ll tell you, they take one of three routes:
Route #1: CLICHÉD NUMBER REQUEST. The first route has been taken so many millions of times in the past that it’s nowadays almost an act of parody – it’s asking the girl for her number. Taking this route is, 9 times out of 10, a Plan B at best. When you ask a girl for her number you not only give her control of the situation (which means she can very easily say no or slip you a phoney number), you also highlight that moment of the conversation as what it really is: an attempt at picking her up. When she realizes this, she’s turned off. No girl likes the idea of being picked-up because it seems sleazy and dangerous. For a girl to allow herself to be picked up, it must feel natural and unforced.
Route #2: GOING FOR IT. This route’s most often taken at night, in bars, clubs and parties – namely because the availability of alcohol makes this option seem a good idea. ‘Going for it’ means a guy will try to kiss the girl or cop a feel a little while after talking to her. Perhaps he’ll do it while they dance or as the venue is closing and they’re leaving. Again, it’s a bad idea because it makes the girl feel used and not in control.
Route #3: BOTTLING IT. This option, quite simply, involves choking at the last second – being unable to go through with a ‘closer’. The conversation’s gone great but the guy just doesn’t feel confident enough to propose meeting up again or something along those lines. As you can imagine, taking this route is a bad idea in regards to being successful with women.
So what do you do? The three routes above are bad, so what route can you take? Well, it goes without saying that you HAVE to run the risk of using a ‘closer’ if you want to see the girl again. Therefore, your goal is to make your offer – in whatever form it might take – seem like a natural, obvious, fun option for the girl to take.
To achieve this, you should justify what you’re suggesting with a REASON you should both do it. For example: “Let’s swap numbers so we can talk about that book we both like.” Or, “We should get a coffee or hot chocolate some time, because I know a great little place that’s just opened and think you’d really like it.” When you follow up an offer (such as swapping numbers or going for a coffee) with a reason for doing it (to talk about something or because you know a nice little new place) you make the offer seem ATTRACTIVE and a NATURAL thing for the girl to say yes to. This is the essence of ‘The Add-On Principle’.
When you employ it, try to always use the words “So” and “Because.” Our minds, when we hear these words, associate them with good reasons, they back things up for us in our heads. You can use this principle any time you want a suggestion you’ve made to a girl to be accepted and agreed to. For example: “Shall we go over and look at the jukebox, so we can put on some tunes we both like?” You’re taking away any hard work the girl needs to do in deciding whether or not she wants to go ahead with what you’re suggesting, simply because you’ve already given her a valid, natural-sounding reason to say “YES!”
Try it…you’ll be amazed at the results.
Picking Up Women: How to Make Easy, Fun Conversation That Leads to Attraction & Sexual Chemistry
There are two main ways in which we communicate with others:
non-verbal communication and vocal/verbal communication. You probably
already know a little about the non-verbal side of things, such as the
types of body language that silently signal someone’s nervous, excited
or angry. But how about the more obvious but actually less frequently
discussed topic of verbal communication: how what we say and how we say
it impacts on our lives and goals? That’s the subject we’re going to
look at today. Except we’re going to a get a little more specific and
delve into how a guy can make easy, fun conversation with a woman, that
helps lead to attraction and sexual chemistry between the two of you.
Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.
Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.
Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.
Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.
Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.
Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.
Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.
Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.
Let’s first get a grasp on a few pieces of background information. First off, how do most men make conversation with a woman they’re attracted to? What do they do right, wrong or completely miss out from their talks with the opposite sex? The best way to answer these questions is simply to identify the mistakes the majority of men out there make – things every guy, for whatever reason, chooses to do when talking to a girl, that hinder – rather than help – his chances of hooking up with her.
Mistake #1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS. Lots of men worry that when they start talking to a girl, she won’t say much back. This outcome, standing there – suffering an awkward, embarrassing silence – is so much of a concern that they ask the girl question after question to avoid it. The reason they bombard her with questions is because they think that the best way of getting and keeping the girl talking is by giving her more and more opportunities to say something, no matter what the topic happens to be. Unfortunately, doing this sends out a very negative message. It actually shows that you’re nervous and would prefer her to do most of the talking, which often turns the woman off completely.
Mistake #2: NEVER SHUTTING UP. This is the opposite scenario to the one above, but happens for the same reason. Some men, scared that the girl they’re talking to will up and leave any second, choose to talk endlessly in an effort to keep their attention. Again, this is immediately obvious as a sign of social inexperience and nervousness.
Mistake #3: BORING HER TO DEATH. It’s not easy talking to a girl who’s beautiful, sexy and usually practically unattainable. So when a guy gets chatting to a girl he really likes, who’s hot and confident, he doesn’t want to mess it up – after all, it might not happen again for ages! So, in an attempt to limit the chance of saying something that might ruin the interaction and thus his chances with her, he subconsciously restricts the topics of conversation he brings up. He talks about work, the weather, sports, current affairs, perhaps bombards her with a few questions on those subjects…and generally doesn’t push the boat out much.
Okay, so they’re 3 of the worst mistakes a guy can make when talking to a girl he likes. So let’s flip the coin and look at what he SHOULD be doing.
Objective #1: PROGRESSIVE QUESTIONING. Choose what questions you ask the girl wisely. You don’t want to throw too many her way too quickly. If you do, you give her too much control over the conversation and don’t provide her with a challenge. So, use progressive questioning – ask her questions that she MUST give a detailed response to. Avoid Yes/No questions and instead quiz her on things that require emotion-packed responses. “Do you come her often?” is a terrible question. “What do you think this place could do to make it feel more lively and fun?” is much better, as it not only requires a more detailed reply than a simple “Yes” or “No,” it also probes the girl on what makes her feel good.
Objective #2: Don’t be afraid to let short pauses punctuate your conversation with a girl. Many men panic when they hear a silence and jump in with another question or statement to fill it. Don’t make the same mistake. A confident, dominant guy – the kind of man women love – isn’t afraid of little pauses, because they’re natural and harmless. He simply, waits a second or two, sips his drink, smiles and goes with the flow.
Objective #3: It’s okay to use common topics of conversation when you first get talking to a girl. But move away from the mundane stuff as quickly as you can and instead choose to tell engaging stories. Describe a great holiday you had, an amazing concert you recently went to…make it positive and interesting and you engage the girl’s emotions and make her want to tell YOU about her own good times. When this happens, instant rapport and sexual chemistry is born.
Tips to Avoid Being Friendzoned by a Girl
You wish to have a relationship with a girl you like but eventually
you got friendzoned. It can be really frustrating when you are
interested in a romantic relationship with a girl but eventually she
wants you to just be friends. So how to avoid being friendzoned?
Be more mindful in picking your match. Being friendzoned sometimes lies on picking the wrong match. If you keep picking the girl not matched or not right for you, it is more likely that you’ll be stuck on being friendzoned. There are signs and body languages when women are interested in you. You must know how to read those signs to know if she’s into you. It is best to pick a woman who is more interested in you from the start to avoid being friendzoned.
Learn to be more attractive. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they are not attractive enough to the opposite sex. The good thing is that attractiveness is not an inborn trait, you can learn how to be more attractive physically and personality wise. By increasing the level of your attractiveness, you can avoid being friendzoned. If you are too shy and lacks self-confidence, you can learn to be more sociable and confident to increase your level of attractiveness. Social skills can be very attractive to the opposite sex. When it comes to physical appearance, there are physical aspects that you can improve to be more attractive without a major plastic surgery. You can improve your physical appearance by learning to dress well and groom well. Keeping a good posture, staying fit or staying physically active and healthy are attractive physical traits to most women.
Make your intentions clear from the beginning. What most men are afraid of is outright rejection so they sometimes choose the safe path like acting as a friend because it is easier. This approach creates confusion to the other party and uncertainty on your part. Creating confusion from the start by not communicating what you really want may hurt more in the end if you eventually get dumped or friendzoned. It is best to be clear with what you want from the start and face rejection upfront if she’s not interested than use friendship as a cover but in reality you want more than that. You can move on as soon as possible and find someone who is interested in you. Stop wasting your time on someone who is not interested and get hurt in the end. Make your intentions clear and avoid being friendzoned.
Don’t appear too desperate. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they do all the work, give all the favors and act as if they are too desperate to get the girl. There are women who want to keep a man with this behavior as a friend or she wants you to stick around without the responsibility of being your girlfriend. They want the benefits from you but do not want the responsibility of having a relationship with you. To avoid being friendzoned, stop being too nice and doing all the work. It is best to allow the other person to value you and do something for you in return. After all, a relationship will not work if one is always the giver and the other is always the receiver. Both should contribute to satisfy each other’s needs. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve
Be more mindful in picking your match. Being friendzoned sometimes lies on picking the wrong match. If you keep picking the girl not matched or not right for you, it is more likely that you’ll be stuck on being friendzoned. There are signs and body languages when women are interested in you. You must know how to read those signs to know if she’s into you. It is best to pick a woman who is more interested in you from the start to avoid being friendzoned.
Learn to be more attractive. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they are not attractive enough to the opposite sex. The good thing is that attractiveness is not an inborn trait, you can learn how to be more attractive physically and personality wise. By increasing the level of your attractiveness, you can avoid being friendzoned. If you are too shy and lacks self-confidence, you can learn to be more sociable and confident to increase your level of attractiveness. Social skills can be very attractive to the opposite sex. When it comes to physical appearance, there are physical aspects that you can improve to be more attractive without a major plastic surgery. You can improve your physical appearance by learning to dress well and groom well. Keeping a good posture, staying fit or staying physically active and healthy are attractive physical traits to most women.
Make your intentions clear from the beginning. What most men are afraid of is outright rejection so they sometimes choose the safe path like acting as a friend because it is easier. This approach creates confusion to the other party and uncertainty on your part. Creating confusion from the start by not communicating what you really want may hurt more in the end if you eventually get dumped or friendzoned. It is best to be clear with what you want from the start and face rejection upfront if she’s not interested than use friendship as a cover but in reality you want more than that. You can move on as soon as possible and find someone who is interested in you. Stop wasting your time on someone who is not interested and get hurt in the end. Make your intentions clear and avoid being friendzoned.
Don’t appear too desperate. Sometimes men are friendzoned because they do all the work, give all the favors and act as if they are too desperate to get the girl. There are women who want to keep a man with this behavior as a friend or she wants you to stick around without the responsibility of being your girlfriend. They want the benefits from you but do not want the responsibility of having a relationship with you. To avoid being friendzoned, stop being too nice and doing all the work. It is best to allow the other person to value you and do something for you in return. After all, a relationship will not work if one is always the giver and the other is always the receiver. Both should contribute to satisfy each other’s needs. Don’t settle for less than what you deserve
How to Beat Shyness Around Women- What Men Should Know
Many men are confident and know their way around women and this is an
advantage and a skill they can use to succeed in dating women.
Unfortunately, there are men who lack confidence and so shy that they
cannot express themselves around women and so they end up dateless and
loveless. For these men, knowing how to beat their shyness around women
is important for them to have the relationship they’ve always wanted
with their dream woman.
So how to beat your shyness around women?
Decide to do something to conquer your shyness around women. The first thing to do is to make a decision that you will act and do something to beat your shyness around women. If you want to have a good job will you just sit there and wait? Or will you go out and do something to get that job you really want? Anything you want can be achieved by making a plan and taking action whether it is in your professional life or in your personal life. If you want something in your life, you have to do something and go for it. The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll get over your shyness around women.
Pretend you are confident. Building confidence is one of the secrets of beating shyness around women. The thing about building confidence is that you have to start somewhere and pretending or acting as if you are confident is a good start. You don’t have to be really confident from the outset but you have to learn to appear and act as if you are confident. Start with your appearance. Be a good dresser, always practice good posture, stand and walk taller and maintain eye contact. If you act like a confident man, people including the opposite sex will start to recognize you as a confident person which can help you gain more confidence that eventually you will find yourself not pretending anymore.
Practice approaching women. If you are the shy type, approaching women is nerve wracking. You’ll get anxious, palm sweating and butterflies in your stomach but if you really want to conquer your shyness around women, you have to take the first step and do it. There is no especial formula in approaching women but to keep doing it. Sure you will experience rejections and failures many times because of your shyness but if you want to beat your shyness around women, you have to keep doing it until you became comfortable approaching women. The more practice you have in approaching women, the less nervous you’ll become. Remember that real failure is not about trying and failing, real failure is about not even trying. Having the courage to approach a woman and say hello whatever the outcome is already a success. Who knows if in one of those tries you’ll meet the one woman who will become your lifetime partner? You’ll be missing a lot of opportunities by not trying.
Talk to people more. Another secret to overcome your shyness around women is to put yourself out there and be more sociable. Talk to people more, not only to the opposite sex but also to men, older people and people of your age group. The more people you talk to, the less pressure you’ll feel and the more confident you’ll become in talking to everyone including women. Get yourself out there and become a more sociable person.
Exercise and keep yourself healthy and fit. Shyness around women can stem from being not too confident and happy with your body and your looks. People usually feel confident when they like what they see in the mirror. Hit the gym and exercise regularly to shed off those unwanted pounds and beer belly. Adapt a healthy lifestyle, keep yourself active and fit. If you are happy with your looks, it will boost your confidence and you will be more motivated to work on conquering your shyness around women.
Realize that women are people too. It is important to realize that you are not the only one who are struggling from shyness. Women can be as shy and nervous as you are around the opposite sex. So there is no reason for you to feel threatened and afraid to approach or talk to women. You can even help each other beat each other’s shyness and become comfortable with each other.
Shyness is a habit that puts limitations on what you could have or achieve in your life. It may be a habit formed in your childhood or it started at some point in your life for whatever reason and it became a part of you. The good thing is that habits can be unlearned and changed. You can train your brain and your body to acquire new habits that are beneficial to you and can help you achieve that things you passionately want in your life. Don’t let shyness get the best of you and stop struggling from shyness.
So how to beat your shyness around women?
Decide to do something to conquer your shyness around women. The first thing to do is to make a decision that you will act and do something to beat your shyness around women. If you want to have a good job will you just sit there and wait? Or will you go out and do something to get that job you really want? Anything you want can be achieved by making a plan and taking action whether it is in your professional life or in your personal life. If you want something in your life, you have to do something and go for it. The sooner you start, the sooner you’ll get over your shyness around women.
Pretend you are confident. Building confidence is one of the secrets of beating shyness around women. The thing about building confidence is that you have to start somewhere and pretending or acting as if you are confident is a good start. You don’t have to be really confident from the outset but you have to learn to appear and act as if you are confident. Start with your appearance. Be a good dresser, always practice good posture, stand and walk taller and maintain eye contact. If you act like a confident man, people including the opposite sex will start to recognize you as a confident person which can help you gain more confidence that eventually you will find yourself not pretending anymore.
Practice approaching women. If you are the shy type, approaching women is nerve wracking. You’ll get anxious, palm sweating and butterflies in your stomach but if you really want to conquer your shyness around women, you have to take the first step and do it. There is no especial formula in approaching women but to keep doing it. Sure you will experience rejections and failures many times because of your shyness but if you want to beat your shyness around women, you have to keep doing it until you became comfortable approaching women. The more practice you have in approaching women, the less nervous you’ll become. Remember that real failure is not about trying and failing, real failure is about not even trying. Having the courage to approach a woman and say hello whatever the outcome is already a success. Who knows if in one of those tries you’ll meet the one woman who will become your lifetime partner? You’ll be missing a lot of opportunities by not trying.
Talk to people more. Another secret to overcome your shyness around women is to put yourself out there and be more sociable. Talk to people more, not only to the opposite sex but also to men, older people and people of your age group. The more people you talk to, the less pressure you’ll feel and the more confident you’ll become in talking to everyone including women. Get yourself out there and become a more sociable person.
Exercise and keep yourself healthy and fit. Shyness around women can stem from being not too confident and happy with your body and your looks. People usually feel confident when they like what they see in the mirror. Hit the gym and exercise regularly to shed off those unwanted pounds and beer belly. Adapt a healthy lifestyle, keep yourself active and fit. If you are happy with your looks, it will boost your confidence and you will be more motivated to work on conquering your shyness around women.
Realize that women are people too. It is important to realize that you are not the only one who are struggling from shyness. Women can be as shy and nervous as you are around the opposite sex. So there is no reason for you to feel threatened and afraid to approach or talk to women. You can even help each other beat each other’s shyness and become comfortable with each other.
Shyness is a habit that puts limitations on what you could have or achieve in your life. It may be a habit formed in your childhood or it started at some point in your life for whatever reason and it became a part of you. The good thing is that habits can be unlearned and changed. You can train your brain and your body to acquire new habits that are beneficial to you and can help you achieve that things you passionately want in your life. Don’t let shyness get the best of you and stop struggling from shyness.
17 Tips to Become a Boyfriend Material Every Man Should Know
Are you looking for a girlfriend or do you want to know how to get a
girlfriend? To get a girlfriend, it all comes down to your
attractiveness and qualities as a potential boyfriend. It can be hard to
find a girlfriend if you are not a boyfriend material in the first
place. It maybe impossible to turn yourself into a perfect boyfriend
material but it is possible to come close to an ideal boyfriend material
most women are looking for. Here are some tips to help you become a
boyfriend material and have a better chance of succeeding in the dating
arena.
Be trustworthy. Your future girlfriend will entrust you her physical and emotional being and if you are not trustworthy enough to take care of her emotionally and physically, you shouldn’t be dreaming of being her boyfriend. To be trusted, you have to be loyal and capable of sticking to one girl, meaning fidelity is a must if you want to be trusted. Showing qualities that you are a one woman man can help you become a boyfriend material most women are looking for.
Know what you want and go for it. A man who can’t make decisions because he does not know what he wants is a big turn off. Indecisiveness is not a good trait for a boyfriend. Knowing what you want and actually going for it is a very attractive trait. For instance, if you really want a relationship, you put yourself out there and let her know that you are interested not just as a friend but as a boyfriend. Of course there is a chance you’ll get rejected but a man who knows what he wants is not afraid to take risks just because he’s afraid of losing. Not taking a step forward or taking a risk on something you want will not get you anywhere. You will remain unnoticed unless you take a step forward and do something.
You are not insecure and you know your worth. Not knowing your worth or not putting importance to yourself could make it hard for you to find a girlfriend. No one wants to have an insecure boyfriend. You have to love yourself first to be able to love others. A man who knows his worth is more confident and this is an admirable trait especially to the opposite sex. Most women are drawn to confident and secured men.
Be compassionate and caring. A compassionate and caring person is not selfish and do not think only of himself. He has a heart that cares for others. Women are naturally caring and compassionate and they have a soft spot for men who are kindhearted and concerned to the welfare of not only his family and friends but also the well-being of other people. To become a boyfriend material, you have to be caring and compassionate.
Be honest. No one wants a relationship based on lies so to become a boyfriend material you have to be honest from the start. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just to impress her. Be yourself and be honest from the start and that is a good trait to become a boyfriend material.
Be chivalrous. In this modern generation, men behave too modern that they often lack the “gentleman” qualities that men should normally have. Being a boyfriend even in this new generation requires you to act as a gentleman so being more chivalrous can help you secure a spot to become a boyfriend material. No matter what generation it is, being chivalrous melts most of women’s heart. Simple chivalrous acts like opening the door for her, pulling a chair, protecting her while walking on the streets, pick her up or walk her home, putting gloves on her hands or jacket on her shoulder when she’s cold, etc. goes a long way. Women can be independent but that doesn’t mean they do not want to be treated like ladies and those little courtly acts can make her feel special and can make her want you as a boyfriend.
Be generous. Being generous is not only about giving lavish gifts. If you can afford it, then by all means shower her with gifts but generosity also means giving your time, love and affection abundantly. Showing your love may include spending on gifts or dates but it doesn’t mean you have to spend more than you can afford to show your generosity. It is good that a woman is aware that you are willing to spend on her but always remember that it’s the thoughts that counts.
You are open to compromise. A relationship won’t work if you don’t know how to find the middle ground and compromise. Showing that you are not close-minded and that you are open to compromise on issues or things that you both cannot see each other eye-to-eye, makes you a good candidate for a boyfriend.
You are willing to open up. Most men are too mysterious or aloof, most women find it appealing at first but if you keep putting up walls that seems hard to break, it could push women away. It may be true that men want their own space but there are times that men should also open up. People including women will open up more to you if you are willing to open up too. To become a boyfriend material, be more open and let her in.
You should be reliable. A woman should feel secure when you are around because you are a reliable man. You are consistent and always do what you said you’ll do. If you said you’ll show up at 8pm then show up on time. Reliability is one of the traits most women are looking for a potential boyfriend.
You are serious and not just playing games. Most women are looking for a boyfriend who do not want to play games so they are looking for someone for keeps. If you just want women for fun, do not look for a girlfriend or a relationship. A woman seeking a boyfriend wants a real relationship and if you are serious, then you can be a candidate for a boyfriend.
You are someone who takes your future seriously. Most women do not want an easy go lucky guy but they aspire for a boyfriend who takes his future seriously. To become a boyfriend material, you must have future goals, have a career and financially secured. You can support yourself and of course your future partner. If you are looking for a girlfriend, of course you also have the time to invest in the relationship despite your focus on your career or else your girlfriend will suffer if you end up putting her last on your list.
Don’t expect physical intimacy too soon. To become a boyfriend material, you must be patient. Do not expect to get laid on the first or second date but wait until she’s ready or until the time is right. A man who is prepared for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship patiently waits and respect a woman’s reserved nature. By patiently waiting, it proves that sex is not your primary intention but you actually want a relationship and willing to wait until she’s ready.
Be a good listener. Listen closely when she’s talking and make her know that you are really listening. Remember even the small details about her. Most men often think that women are big talkers and they do not think that it’s worth listening to everything they say. Let her know that you are different and that you know how to listen. Making eye contact while listening to her can help you make emotional connections with her. Most women want to be heard and they want a boyfriend who knows how to listen.
Show interest on her passion. Like most men, women also want their man to show interest on what they do. A man who truly wants a relationship with a woman is also interested on everything about her including her job, hobbies and her passion. Showing support and interest on things important to her can help you become a boyfriend material.
Become friends with her family and friends. Most women consider the opinion of their families and close friends regarding relationships. It is best to become friends with people close to her to have a solid back up and to prove that you are serious and sincere with your intentions. Taking into consideration the important roles of her family and friends on her relationships can help you become a boyfriend material.
Always be positive. Many men encountered rejections after rejections before finding the one destined for them. Do not be too hard on yourself. Think that another rejection makes you one step closer to finding the one right for you. Enjoy the experience of dating and you will eventually find the one for you.
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Be trustworthy. Your future girlfriend will entrust you her physical and emotional being and if you are not trustworthy enough to take care of her emotionally and physically, you shouldn’t be dreaming of being her boyfriend. To be trusted, you have to be loyal and capable of sticking to one girl, meaning fidelity is a must if you want to be trusted. Showing qualities that you are a one woman man can help you become a boyfriend material most women are looking for.
Know what you want and go for it. A man who can’t make decisions because he does not know what he wants is a big turn off. Indecisiveness is not a good trait for a boyfriend. Knowing what you want and actually going for it is a very attractive trait. For instance, if you really want a relationship, you put yourself out there and let her know that you are interested not just as a friend but as a boyfriend. Of course there is a chance you’ll get rejected but a man who knows what he wants is not afraid to take risks just because he’s afraid of losing. Not taking a step forward or taking a risk on something you want will not get you anywhere. You will remain unnoticed unless you take a step forward and do something.
You are not insecure and you know your worth. Not knowing your worth or not putting importance to yourself could make it hard for you to find a girlfriend. No one wants to have an insecure boyfriend. You have to love yourself first to be able to love others. A man who knows his worth is more confident and this is an admirable trait especially to the opposite sex. Most women are drawn to confident and secured men.
Be compassionate and caring. A compassionate and caring person is not selfish and do not think only of himself. He has a heart that cares for others. Women are naturally caring and compassionate and they have a soft spot for men who are kindhearted and concerned to the welfare of not only his family and friends but also the well-being of other people. To become a boyfriend material, you have to be caring and compassionate.
Be honest. No one wants a relationship based on lies so to become a boyfriend material you have to be honest from the start. Do not pretend to be someone you are not just to impress her. Be yourself and be honest from the start and that is a good trait to become a boyfriend material.
Be chivalrous. In this modern generation, men behave too modern that they often lack the “gentleman” qualities that men should normally have. Being a boyfriend even in this new generation requires you to act as a gentleman so being more chivalrous can help you secure a spot to become a boyfriend material. No matter what generation it is, being chivalrous melts most of women’s heart. Simple chivalrous acts like opening the door for her, pulling a chair, protecting her while walking on the streets, pick her up or walk her home, putting gloves on her hands or jacket on her shoulder when she’s cold, etc. goes a long way. Women can be independent but that doesn’t mean they do not want to be treated like ladies and those little courtly acts can make her feel special and can make her want you as a boyfriend.
Be generous. Being generous is not only about giving lavish gifts. If you can afford it, then by all means shower her with gifts but generosity also means giving your time, love and affection abundantly. Showing your love may include spending on gifts or dates but it doesn’t mean you have to spend more than you can afford to show your generosity. It is good that a woman is aware that you are willing to spend on her but always remember that it’s the thoughts that counts.
You are open to compromise. A relationship won’t work if you don’t know how to find the middle ground and compromise. Showing that you are not close-minded and that you are open to compromise on issues or things that you both cannot see each other eye-to-eye, makes you a good candidate for a boyfriend.
You are willing to open up. Most men are too mysterious or aloof, most women find it appealing at first but if you keep putting up walls that seems hard to break, it could push women away. It may be true that men want their own space but there are times that men should also open up. People including women will open up more to you if you are willing to open up too. To become a boyfriend material, be more open and let her in.
You should be reliable. A woman should feel secure when you are around because you are a reliable man. You are consistent and always do what you said you’ll do. If you said you’ll show up at 8pm then show up on time. Reliability is one of the traits most women are looking for a potential boyfriend.
You are serious and not just playing games. Most women are looking for a boyfriend who do not want to play games so they are looking for someone for keeps. If you just want women for fun, do not look for a girlfriend or a relationship. A woman seeking a boyfriend wants a real relationship and if you are serious, then you can be a candidate for a boyfriend.
You are someone who takes your future seriously. Most women do not want an easy go lucky guy but they aspire for a boyfriend who takes his future seriously. To become a boyfriend material, you must have future goals, have a career and financially secured. You can support yourself and of course your future partner. If you are looking for a girlfriend, of course you also have the time to invest in the relationship despite your focus on your career or else your girlfriend will suffer if you end up putting her last on your list.
Don’t expect physical intimacy too soon. To become a boyfriend material, you must be patient. Do not expect to get laid on the first or second date but wait until she’s ready or until the time is right. A man who is prepared for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship patiently waits and respect a woman’s reserved nature. By patiently waiting, it proves that sex is not your primary intention but you actually want a relationship and willing to wait until she’s ready.
Be a good listener. Listen closely when she’s talking and make her know that you are really listening. Remember even the small details about her. Most men often think that women are big talkers and they do not think that it’s worth listening to everything they say. Let her know that you are different and that you know how to listen. Making eye contact while listening to her can help you make emotional connections with her. Most women want to be heard and they want a boyfriend who knows how to listen.
Show interest on her passion. Like most men, women also want their man to show interest on what they do. A man who truly wants a relationship with a woman is also interested on everything about her including her job, hobbies and her passion. Showing support and interest on things important to her can help you become a boyfriend material.
Become friends with her family and friends. Most women consider the opinion of their families and close friends regarding relationships. It is best to become friends with people close to her to have a solid back up and to prove that you are serious and sincere with your intentions. Taking into consideration the important roles of her family and friends on her relationships can help you become a boyfriend material.
Always be positive. Many men encountered rejections after rejections before finding the one destined for them. Do not be too hard on yourself. Think that another rejection makes you one step closer to finding the one right for you. Enjoy the experience of dating and you will eventually find the one for you.
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Increase Your Appeal to Women
There are men who simply have the charisma and appeal to women and
most men want to be in their shoes. Who wouldn’t want to attract women
effortlessly? But not everyone have that natural charisma so if you feel
that you do not have that natural appeal to women, it doesn’t mean that
you can’t develop it. Appeal is something that can be developed. So how
to increase your appeal to women?
Good personal hygiene. It is surprising how many men take their hygiene for granted affecting their charm to women. If you want to increase your appeal to women, you have to maintain a good personal hygiene. Most men perspire a lot so it is important to use a good antiperspirant to appear fresh all the time. Pay attention to your dental health to keep your teeth white and healthy and most of all to avoid bad breath. Brush your teeth regularly and do not forget to carry a pack of candy mints that comes in handy after eating or drinking something smelly. Shower at least twice a day to always look fresh. Women can notice even the small details like your nails, so keep your nails trimmed and clean all the time. Moisturize and put attention to your skin health because most women admire men with healthy skin. Always practice good hygiene because women definitely wouldn’t want to go out with men who have poor hygiene.
Good grooming. Choose a hairstyle that matches your personality and your lifestyle. Get rid of unwanted hair on your nose and make sure to do it regularly. Wear clean clothes and footwear all the time. Most people wear nice and clean clothes but usually forget to put attention to their shoes or footwear so do not make this kind of mistake and wear clean clothes and well-polished clean shoes. Invest on a decent belt that matches your shoes. It wouldn’t hurt to wear perfumes every time you go out. Pay attention to your wardrobe or learn how to dress sharp and appropriately. Your overall appearance can greatly increase your appeal to women but remember that you do not have to spend a fortune to groom yourself.
Stay fit and maintain a good body shape. If most men love to go out with sexy women, it is the same with most women. They prefer men who are fit and in good shape so get rid of your beer belly and start working out now. Go to the gym to lose those unwanted pounds and build lean muscles to stay fit. Getting into shape is not only to increase your appeal to women but it is also for your overall health and well-being. It is also a good way to boost your self-confidence. Men who are happy with their body are more confident and healthier.
Learn to cook and acquire other skills that come in handy at home. Men who can cook and have skills that comes in handy at home like carpentry or repairing things at home have special appeal to women. Most women are looking for a potential husband and knowing how to fix things at home and how to work around the kitchen are good qualities of a husband to be.
Have some hobbies. Using your time wisely on creative or physically challenging hobbies can be very attractive. Some of the hobbies that women find appealing include playing musical instruments, photography, DIY and playing sports. A person who is good at something is very admirable and attractive. If you want to increase your appeal to women, have some hobbies or skills you are good at. It will not only make you more interesting but it will also create a positive impact on your personality.
Leadership. This doesn’t mean that you have to be a president of an organization or you have to hold a high position in a major company. Leadership is the ability to guide people to do some tasks or solve problems. The initiative and ability to lead others can be a very impressive and attractive trait. Your leadership skills can help you increase your appeal to women.
Confidence. Men with confidence are very attractive because it means they know their worth. It’s a big turn off to see men who do not believe in themselves and do not know their worth. For someone to believe in you, you must believe in yourself first. Work on your confidence to increase your appeal to women.
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Good personal hygiene. It is surprising how many men take their hygiene for granted affecting their charm to women. If you want to increase your appeal to women, you have to maintain a good personal hygiene. Most men perspire a lot so it is important to use a good antiperspirant to appear fresh all the time. Pay attention to your dental health to keep your teeth white and healthy and most of all to avoid bad breath. Brush your teeth regularly and do not forget to carry a pack of candy mints that comes in handy after eating or drinking something smelly. Shower at least twice a day to always look fresh. Women can notice even the small details like your nails, so keep your nails trimmed and clean all the time. Moisturize and put attention to your skin health because most women admire men with healthy skin. Always practice good hygiene because women definitely wouldn’t want to go out with men who have poor hygiene.
Good grooming. Choose a hairstyle that matches your personality and your lifestyle. Get rid of unwanted hair on your nose and make sure to do it regularly. Wear clean clothes and footwear all the time. Most people wear nice and clean clothes but usually forget to put attention to their shoes or footwear so do not make this kind of mistake and wear clean clothes and well-polished clean shoes. Invest on a decent belt that matches your shoes. It wouldn’t hurt to wear perfumes every time you go out. Pay attention to your wardrobe or learn how to dress sharp and appropriately. Your overall appearance can greatly increase your appeal to women but remember that you do not have to spend a fortune to groom yourself.
Stay fit and maintain a good body shape. If most men love to go out with sexy women, it is the same with most women. They prefer men who are fit and in good shape so get rid of your beer belly and start working out now. Go to the gym to lose those unwanted pounds and build lean muscles to stay fit. Getting into shape is not only to increase your appeal to women but it is also for your overall health and well-being. It is also a good way to boost your self-confidence. Men who are happy with their body are more confident and healthier.
Learn to cook and acquire other skills that come in handy at home. Men who can cook and have skills that comes in handy at home like carpentry or repairing things at home have special appeal to women. Most women are looking for a potential husband and knowing how to fix things at home and how to work around the kitchen are good qualities of a husband to be.
Have some hobbies. Using your time wisely on creative or physically challenging hobbies can be very attractive. Some of the hobbies that women find appealing include playing musical instruments, photography, DIY and playing sports. A person who is good at something is very admirable and attractive. If you want to increase your appeal to women, have some hobbies or skills you are good at. It will not only make you more interesting but it will also create a positive impact on your personality.
Leadership. This doesn’t mean that you have to be a president of an organization or you have to hold a high position in a major company. Leadership is the ability to guide people to do some tasks or solve problems. The initiative and ability to lead others can be a very impressive and attractive trait. Your leadership skills can help you increase your appeal to women.
Confidence. Men with confidence are very attractive because it means they know their worth. It’s a big turn off to see men who do not believe in themselves and do not know their worth. For someone to believe in you, you must believe in yourself first. Work on your confidence to increase your appeal to women.
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How to Become a More Interesting Man
Every woman wants to be with an interesting guy. If you are not that
interesting, you’ll find it hard to attract women. So how to become a
more interesting man?
Live a fun life. Living a fun life doesn’t mean you are not taking life seriously but living a fun life is enjoying life while taking it seriously. Sitting around at home or in your cube or glued to your gadgets all day will not help you become a more interesting man. Go out and socialize with people. Learn more about the people, places and events around you. Meet interesting people, listen to new music, watch new movies, visit new places and try new things. Be childlike and be fun to be with.
Be interested. It’s that simple, become interested in anything and everything around you and you’ll become a more interesting man. You should be open to new things and new ideas. Get out of your comfort zone and be interested even to those things outside your area of interest. Ask questions or be curious and explore things. The world is full of interesting things, are you taking advantage of that?
Have a positive attitude about everything. There are many negative people in this world, maybe because life is often depressing and frustrating to many people. But you have to realize that life is difficult enough and being negative makes it more difficult. You can become a more interesting man if you are very positive and optimistic about everything.
Surround yourself with interesting people and make new friends. People are the most interesting subject in this world. Learning from people’s experiences, skills or knowledge can help you become a more interesting man. Seek out like-minded people who can bring positive changes into your life.
Surround yourself with interesting people and you’ll become one. Join clubs, groups or enroll in a class to meet interesting people and to make new friends. Another way to meet new people is to get involved in your community. Volunteer in your community and you will not only meet new people but you can also help people around your community.
Travel more. Traveling can help you become a better and well-rounded person. The new experiences gained from traveling are priceless. Traveling can help you become a more interesting man. The more places you visit the more interesting you will become. Traveling can help you become better in treating people, better in making friends and better in conversations. Traveling can make you more confident, more adventurous, more knowledgeable and happier.
Read widely. A person who reads a lot is an interesting person. You will never run out of subjects to talk about because you have a huge information bank acquired through reading. Read books, newspapers or anything that can add value to you as a person.
Have a few hobbies or learn new skills. You can become a more interesting man if you can do things that not everybody can do. Do not limit yourself on your everyday routine but incorporate a few hobbies like playing sports, gardening, photography or learn new skills like playing a musical instrument, carpentry, cooking, learn a new language, learn how to build or repair things etc. Learn as many things as possible but most importantly, enjoy everything that you do.
Be a passionate person. It is important to incorporate passion in everything that you do. If everything you do is done with passion, the result will be amazing and you will become an inspiration to others.
Share the things you’ve learned. The fastest way to master what you’ve learned is by teaching others. It is not only rewarding to see someone learning from you but it is also a nice thing to do. A person who knows how to share is not only interesting but also admirable.
You have to know that being interesting doesn’t mean you have to do extreme things because you can be interesting doing simple things.
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Live a fun life. Living a fun life doesn’t mean you are not taking life seriously but living a fun life is enjoying life while taking it seriously. Sitting around at home or in your cube or glued to your gadgets all day will not help you become a more interesting man. Go out and socialize with people. Learn more about the people, places and events around you. Meet interesting people, listen to new music, watch new movies, visit new places and try new things. Be childlike and be fun to be with.
Be interested. It’s that simple, become interested in anything and everything around you and you’ll become a more interesting man. You should be open to new things and new ideas. Get out of your comfort zone and be interested even to those things outside your area of interest. Ask questions or be curious and explore things. The world is full of interesting things, are you taking advantage of that?
Have a positive attitude about everything. There are many negative people in this world, maybe because life is often depressing and frustrating to many people. But you have to realize that life is difficult enough and being negative makes it more difficult. You can become a more interesting man if you are very positive and optimistic about everything.
Surround yourself with interesting people and make new friends. People are the most interesting subject in this world. Learning from people’s experiences, skills or knowledge can help you become a more interesting man. Seek out like-minded people who can bring positive changes into your life.
Surround yourself with interesting people and you’ll become one. Join clubs, groups or enroll in a class to meet interesting people and to make new friends. Another way to meet new people is to get involved in your community. Volunteer in your community and you will not only meet new people but you can also help people around your community.
Travel more. Traveling can help you become a better and well-rounded person. The new experiences gained from traveling are priceless. Traveling can help you become a more interesting man. The more places you visit the more interesting you will become. Traveling can help you become better in treating people, better in making friends and better in conversations. Traveling can make you more confident, more adventurous, more knowledgeable and happier.
Read widely. A person who reads a lot is an interesting person. You will never run out of subjects to talk about because you have a huge information bank acquired through reading. Read books, newspapers or anything that can add value to you as a person.
Have a few hobbies or learn new skills. You can become a more interesting man if you can do things that not everybody can do. Do not limit yourself on your everyday routine but incorporate a few hobbies like playing sports, gardening, photography or learn new skills like playing a musical instrument, carpentry, cooking, learn a new language, learn how to build or repair things etc. Learn as many things as possible but most importantly, enjoy everything that you do.
Be a passionate person. It is important to incorporate passion in everything that you do. If everything you do is done with passion, the result will be amazing and you will become an inspiration to others.
Share the things you’ve learned. The fastest way to master what you’ve learned is by teaching others. It is not only rewarding to see someone learning from you but it is also a nice thing to do. A person who knows how to share is not only interesting but also admirable.
You have to know that being interesting doesn’t mean you have to do extreme things because you can be interesting doing simple things.
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Tips in Building Self Confidence Around Women
Is the lack of confidence around women holding you back in pursuing
the woman of your dreams? You are not alone, many men have this problem.
They get tense, anxious and feel insecure in front of the woman they
adore. If this keeps on happening to you, you won’t be able to act the
way you want and you will appear unattractive to most women. Confidence
is a trait that women admire most and building self confidence around
women is necessary if you want to succeed in dating women.
How to build self confidence around women?
Know that most people lack self confidence. Your lack of confidence shouldn’t be an excuse for not approaching the woman you like. You have to know that it is normal for people to feel unsure, uncomfortable or shy in front of another person especially if this person is someone you like so you do not have to feel less of a person for feeling less confident. Who knows, the person that you are afraid to approach might be as shy as you are. In building self confidence around women you have to muster your courage and conquer your fears.
Dress like a confident man. In everything we do we have to set the mood to be able to feel it and get in action. We get into the mood of sleeping if we are in our panjamas or any sleeping clothes, we wear school uniforms or working clothes to get into the mood of going to school or working. It is the same in building confidence around women, you have to wear a confident persona to get into the mood and one way of accomplishing that is to dress well and appear confident. Wear something stylish and classy but be sure you are comfortable and confident pulling that off. Groom yourself from head to toe. Put attention to your hairstyle and even to your shoes. Trim your facial hair including the hair in your nose and cut your fingernails to appear clean and fresh. Remember that grooming yourself doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune. There are ways to look great on a budget.
Believe in yourself. Lack of confidence stems from not believing in yourself and in building confidence around women, you have to change your mindset. The way we think affects our behavior. If you do not believe in yourself, it shows in your action. If you will start to believe more in yourself, you will start to act more confident. This is easily said than done but you have to start changing your mindset if you want to build self confidence around women. If you will start now and will keep on doing it, you will eventually become better and will naturally act confident around women. Believe that you are interesting and likeable and it will show in your actions. Once you start believing in yourself, women will find you more interesting and attractive.
Accept that rejection is a normal part of life. Fear of rejection is the major factor contributing to the lack of confidence of most men. They do not want to be rejected so they just stay away and failed to muster the confidence to approach the women they find attractive. Accept that rejection is a normal part of life and dating or approaching women is not an exception. Almost everybody gets rejected but those who succeeded are those who refused to give up. In building confidence around women, you have to change your outlook about rejection. Think that in every rejection, you get one step closer to meeting “the one” for you.
Practice, practice and practice. Self-consciousness around women can prevent you from acting confident around them but if you will expose yourself to socialize more with women, this self-consciousness will be reduced if not eliminated. You probably already know the common saying that constant practice makes it perfect and you probably have done that on some of the things that you want to learn in school or at work. In building confidence around women, you also have to practice constantly to get the hang of it and to become more confident. Practice being around women more and socialize with them more. Practice having conversations with your women friends so that when the time comes that you have to face the woman you are attracted to, you will not be too overwhelmed.
Once you’ve learned to be confident around women or in front of people in general, it will bring positive changes in your life especially in your social or dating life.
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How to build self confidence around women?
Know that most people lack self confidence. Your lack of confidence shouldn’t be an excuse for not approaching the woman you like. You have to know that it is normal for people to feel unsure, uncomfortable or shy in front of another person especially if this person is someone you like so you do not have to feel less of a person for feeling less confident. Who knows, the person that you are afraid to approach might be as shy as you are. In building self confidence around women you have to muster your courage and conquer your fears.
Dress like a confident man. In everything we do we have to set the mood to be able to feel it and get in action. We get into the mood of sleeping if we are in our panjamas or any sleeping clothes, we wear school uniforms or working clothes to get into the mood of going to school or working. It is the same in building confidence around women, you have to wear a confident persona to get into the mood and one way of accomplishing that is to dress well and appear confident. Wear something stylish and classy but be sure you are comfortable and confident pulling that off. Groom yourself from head to toe. Put attention to your hairstyle and even to your shoes. Trim your facial hair including the hair in your nose and cut your fingernails to appear clean and fresh. Remember that grooming yourself doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune. There are ways to look great on a budget.
Believe in yourself. Lack of confidence stems from not believing in yourself and in building confidence around women, you have to change your mindset. The way we think affects our behavior. If you do not believe in yourself, it shows in your action. If you will start to believe more in yourself, you will start to act more confident. This is easily said than done but you have to start changing your mindset if you want to build self confidence around women. If you will start now and will keep on doing it, you will eventually become better and will naturally act confident around women. Believe that you are interesting and likeable and it will show in your actions. Once you start believing in yourself, women will find you more interesting and attractive.
Accept that rejection is a normal part of life. Fear of rejection is the major factor contributing to the lack of confidence of most men. They do not want to be rejected so they just stay away and failed to muster the confidence to approach the women they find attractive. Accept that rejection is a normal part of life and dating or approaching women is not an exception. Almost everybody gets rejected but those who succeeded are those who refused to give up. In building confidence around women, you have to change your outlook about rejection. Think that in every rejection, you get one step closer to meeting “the one” for you.
Practice, practice and practice. Self-consciousness around women can prevent you from acting confident around them but if you will expose yourself to socialize more with women, this self-consciousness will be reduced if not eliminated. You probably already know the common saying that constant practice makes it perfect and you probably have done that on some of the things that you want to learn in school or at work. In building confidence around women, you also have to practice constantly to get the hang of it and to become more confident. Practice being around women more and socialize with them more. Practice having conversations with your women friends so that when the time comes that you have to face the woman you are attracted to, you will not be too overwhelmed.
Once you’ve learned to be confident around women or in front of people in general, it will bring positive changes in your life especially in your social or dating life.
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What Attracts Women the Most?
It can be confusing sometimes to think what really goes on the mind
of women. Just when we thought that tall, dark and handsome men are what
attracts women the most, we will see men of average looks dating
gorgeous women. Is it pure luck? Or are these women out of their mind?
Well, it all comes down to attraction, not all handsome men have the
qualities that attracts women and even average looking men can magnetize
gorgeous women. So what attracts women the most?
When it comes to attraction, men and women are totally different. While men are more physical and usually detached, women are more personal and emotional. Most women are interested on people’s feelings than the physical aspect. It is important to know what attracts women the most to achieve success in dating women.
Men who know what they want and they go for it. Most women are attracted to men who have goals and taking action on them. They just don’t dream but they pursue their dreams to make it happen. The drive of these men to achieve their goals is what attracts women the most. A man with a passion and doing something to make it a reality is very attractive.
Men who can connect with women on the emotional level. As previously mentioned, women tend to be more emotional so they want men who can connect with them emotionally. Most men are not emotional but it can be very attractive if men can put down their walls and let women in. Men are more attractive when they know how to listen, communicate and share their emotions. Showing your emotions is not a sign of weakness but it shows that you also have your soft side.
Men who have the time to be with their woman. Women are attracted to men who can make them feel that they are their priority and not just someone who is the last on their list. This doesn’t mean that women have to be demanding but women of course do not want to be the last on your list of priorities.
Men who are spontaneous. It is important for men to always plan and do everything according to their plans to be really successful in this life but it can make them appear lifeless and boring if they are so predictable and keep doing the same things. A man who can be unpredictable sometimes and can do things out of nowhere for the sake of romance can be very attractive. He doesn’t mind to look silly once in a while and he’s ready to throw caution in the wind and dance with you in the rain.
Men with sense of humor. Make her laugh and she’s yours. A great sense of humor is what attracts women the most. Most women worry too much and tend to be more serious so they want to be around people who can make them forget their worries and can make them laugh. A man who can make a woman laugh and feel happy every time she’s with him is really unforgettable and attractive.
A leader. Men are called the head of the family and that title means men should be leaders. Women are drawn to men who have the leadership quality maybe because they know that men with the ability to lead others can live up to the title head of the family when they decided to have a family of their own. A leader is someone who has the intelligence and the confidence to lead others but he is not domineering. His leadership serves as an inspiration to others.
Knowing what attracts women the most can help you succeed in dating women but if you are still not convinced that you have what it takes to attract every woman, visit The Tao of Badass
When it comes to attraction, men and women are totally different. While men are more physical and usually detached, women are more personal and emotional. Most women are interested on people’s feelings than the physical aspect. It is important to know what attracts women the most to achieve success in dating women.
Men who know what they want and they go for it. Most women are attracted to men who have goals and taking action on them. They just don’t dream but they pursue their dreams to make it happen. The drive of these men to achieve their goals is what attracts women the most. A man with a passion and doing something to make it a reality is very attractive.
Men who can connect with women on the emotional level. As previously mentioned, women tend to be more emotional so they want men who can connect with them emotionally. Most men are not emotional but it can be very attractive if men can put down their walls and let women in. Men are more attractive when they know how to listen, communicate and share their emotions. Showing your emotions is not a sign of weakness but it shows that you also have your soft side.
Men who have the time to be with their woman. Women are attracted to men who can make them feel that they are their priority and not just someone who is the last on their list. This doesn’t mean that women have to be demanding but women of course do not want to be the last on your list of priorities.
Men who are spontaneous. It is important for men to always plan and do everything according to their plans to be really successful in this life but it can make them appear lifeless and boring if they are so predictable and keep doing the same things. A man who can be unpredictable sometimes and can do things out of nowhere for the sake of romance can be very attractive. He doesn’t mind to look silly once in a while and he’s ready to throw caution in the wind and dance with you in the rain.
Men with sense of humor. Make her laugh and she’s yours. A great sense of humor is what attracts women the most. Most women worry too much and tend to be more serious so they want to be around people who can make them forget their worries and can make them laugh. A man who can make a woman laugh and feel happy every time she’s with him is really unforgettable and attractive.
A leader. Men are called the head of the family and that title means men should be leaders. Women are drawn to men who have the leadership quality maybe because they know that men with the ability to lead others can live up to the title head of the family when they decided to have a family of their own. A leader is someone who has the intelligence and the confidence to lead others but he is not domineering. His leadership serves as an inspiration to others.
Knowing what attracts women the most can help you succeed in dating women but if you are still not convinced that you have what it takes to attract every woman, visit The Tao of Badass
Dating After 40 for Men- Tips for Better Dating
Many men over the age of 40 are still single or newly single and most
of them do not want to be one. Dating after 40 for men has its
difficulties. Most middle-aged single men have family obligations,
careers and emotional baggage that makes if difficult for them to start
dating again.
Despite the difficulties, dating is a thing not only for the young. Middle-aged people are also entitled to enjoy dating and eventually find the long-term relationship they’ve been looking for. Dating after 40 for men is doable with these helpful tips:
Make your first date as light as possible. If you’ve been out of the dating game for such a long time (maybe your long-term relationship just ended or you’ve been glued to your career) and this is your first date after such a long time, it is best to avoid Friday night dates or dinner dates that could put more pressure on you. It is best to start with a light date, meet for coffee for instance or visit places where there are many things to see and talk about. Dating after 40 for men could be nerve wracking so do not pressure yourself to go back on the normal trail too soon but take the lighter road to get the hang of it again first.
Get rid of the negative mind-set. Some people and even modern advertising tend to imply that dating is something that is only for the young but in reality, this is not the case. A significant number of singles are in their 40s and above so the dating market is flooded with middle-aged people. Get the negative mind-set out of your system. Negative thoughts that you are too old, not attractive enough or aging has taken way your charm are not helpful. Dating is for everybody who wants to find “the one” who can be their lifetime partner. There are more attractive things about mature males. Men who are above 40 are more established in their careers, financially stable, have more experiences and they are more interesting. There are things that you can do to improve your attractiveness so do not let your negative thoughts get into the way of trying your luck again in the dating game. Go out and date to find the one for you. Dating after 40 for men may be difficult at first and not all will be successful but those who are guaranteed to fail are those who never even want to try.
Have realistic expectations. Maybe you were younger when you had a long-term relationship and stopped dating then or you were so focused on your career that you spent your younger years building a solid career. Now that you are not that young anymore, you want to start dating again and you expect to pick up where you left off. Have realistic expectations, you are not as young as before and the women you’ll meet are not only the young women who never been married but you’ll also meet matured women and divorced women with kids. Some men in their 40s find women with their age too old and have too many baggage to deal with but you have to be realistic that with your age, it is inevitable to meet those kind of women. Romance knows no age and you have to be open-minded and know that you’ll also find a gem even with women your age. Dating after 40 for men is not a dreamland, be realistic.
Be patient. Do not expect an instant success the moment you started dating again. You need to be patient because finding the love of your life takes time. Being available in the dating market again after a long absence is a journey that you need to take with patience. Do not get frustrated if things don’t happen the way you expect it, you need to take the journey and you’ll eventually arrive at your desired destination. Be patient!
Be sociable. Go out and spend time with your friends, friends of friends, neighbors, relatives, etc. Do not spend Friday nights or weekends alone at home but go out and expand your network of friends. Maybe your old friends are all married now but it doesn’t mean you can’t hang out with them anymore. It is also best to meet new people to create new friendships especially to those who are single to increase your chances of meeting the love of your life. The key is go out and be sociable. Dating after 40 for men is exciting and interesting if you will take the step to go out of your comfort zone, explore the world outside and make connections with people.
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Despite the difficulties, dating is a thing not only for the young. Middle-aged people are also entitled to enjoy dating and eventually find the long-term relationship they’ve been looking for. Dating after 40 for men is doable with these helpful tips:
Make your first date as light as possible. If you’ve been out of the dating game for such a long time (maybe your long-term relationship just ended or you’ve been glued to your career) and this is your first date after such a long time, it is best to avoid Friday night dates or dinner dates that could put more pressure on you. It is best to start with a light date, meet for coffee for instance or visit places where there are many things to see and talk about. Dating after 40 for men could be nerve wracking so do not pressure yourself to go back on the normal trail too soon but take the lighter road to get the hang of it again first.
Get rid of the negative mind-set. Some people and even modern advertising tend to imply that dating is something that is only for the young but in reality, this is not the case. A significant number of singles are in their 40s and above so the dating market is flooded with middle-aged people. Get the negative mind-set out of your system. Negative thoughts that you are too old, not attractive enough or aging has taken way your charm are not helpful. Dating is for everybody who wants to find “the one” who can be their lifetime partner. There are more attractive things about mature males. Men who are above 40 are more established in their careers, financially stable, have more experiences and they are more interesting. There are things that you can do to improve your attractiveness so do not let your negative thoughts get into the way of trying your luck again in the dating game. Go out and date to find the one for you. Dating after 40 for men may be difficult at first and not all will be successful but those who are guaranteed to fail are those who never even want to try.
Have realistic expectations. Maybe you were younger when you had a long-term relationship and stopped dating then or you were so focused on your career that you spent your younger years building a solid career. Now that you are not that young anymore, you want to start dating again and you expect to pick up where you left off. Have realistic expectations, you are not as young as before and the women you’ll meet are not only the young women who never been married but you’ll also meet matured women and divorced women with kids. Some men in their 40s find women with their age too old and have too many baggage to deal with but you have to be realistic that with your age, it is inevitable to meet those kind of women. Romance knows no age and you have to be open-minded and know that you’ll also find a gem even with women your age. Dating after 40 for men is not a dreamland, be realistic.
Be patient. Do not expect an instant success the moment you started dating again. You need to be patient because finding the love of your life takes time. Being available in the dating market again after a long absence is a journey that you need to take with patience. Do not get frustrated if things don’t happen the way you expect it, you need to take the journey and you’ll eventually arrive at your desired destination. Be patient!
Be sociable. Go out and spend time with your friends, friends of friends, neighbors, relatives, etc. Do not spend Friday nights or weekends alone at home but go out and expand your network of friends. Maybe your old friends are all married now but it doesn’t mean you can’t hang out with them anymore. It is also best to meet new people to create new friendships especially to those who are single to increase your chances of meeting the love of your life. The key is go out and be sociable. Dating after 40 for men is exciting and interesting if you will take the step to go out of your comfort zone, explore the world outside and make connections with people.
Dating after 40 for men is not as difficult as you think if you’ll take the first step and start your journey now of finding the love of your life. Do you want to attract the woman of your dreams? Visit The Tao of Badass
The Art of Attracting Mature Women- Tips for Younger Men
If you think mature women are no longer attractive, think again
because not all men have their eyes on young women. Some men are
attracted to mature women because of their independence and they are
less likely to be clingy. Older women already know who they are, what
they want, have more experiences, have more interesting stories, more
confident and most importantly they are not dating to play games. There
are men who prefer attracting mature women especially those who are
ready to commit.
You are sure that you want older women, now the problem is you are young and you do not know how to attract older women. Here are some helpful tips in attracting mature women.
Show that you are sincerely interested. Older women do not want to guess or assume, they’ve seen how men are especially those who just want to play around and just beating around the bush. Older women know what they want and they want to meet men who know what they want and know how to sincerely express they are interested. Be assertive and make her know that you know what you want. Showing your real and sincere intention is the way to go in attracting mature women.
Be presentable. Women especially those older want to go out with men who are presentable and who knows how to dress well. Most older women are decent and of course they prefer men who dress and look decent. A shave and new haircut can do wonders. Put attention to your hygiene too. Wear clean clothes and shoes. Do not forget to pay attention to your fingernails. First impression do last, so appear fresh and well-groomed to succeed in attracting mature women.
Be confident and have faith in yourself. Nothing is more attractive than a man who knows his worth, have faith in himself and oozing with confidence. Since older women are confident themselves, they do not want men who are insecure and do not believe in themselves. Yes, you are younger but that doesn’t mean you have nothing to offer. Think and believe that you are attractive and you have good qualities that can attract older women. It’s all about carrying yourself with confidence, having the right attitude and a positive mind-set. It takes guts and confidence to be successful in attracting mature women.
Make her feel that she’s gorgeous and attractive. Women of all ages want to feel they are gorgeous and admired. Compliment her and let her know her best qualities that you really admire. But of course this will only work if you are sincere with your admiration of her so be truthful and sincere with your compliments.
Acquire more skills, knowledge and experiences. You have an advantage being young because you have the energy and the time to acquire more skills, knowledge and experiences so get the most out of it. Learn or acquire new skills or hobbies like playing a musical instrument, cooking, photography, sports, etc. not only to impress older women but to make yourself more interesting. Travel or visit new and more exciting places to acquire more knowledge and experiences. Read more and be updated with current events or latest news. The more places you visit and the more things you know, the more subject you can come up during conversations. Older women love to learn new things from other people so be that person who can teach her new things. Being interesting is one way to achieve your goal of attracting mature women.
Make her laugh. Older women tend to be more serious so it is great if you can make her laugh to help her loosen up a bit. Older women may consider going out with younger guys because young men are fun to be with and they have less issues and baggage. Sense of humor or having fun doesn’t mean you are not serious but you just want to show a side of you that is light, happy and funny. In attracting mature women, sense of humor is important.
You have to know that impressing and attracting mature women does not mean you have to be a different person. You are just creating a better version of yourself to attract women and not pretending to be someone you are not. Do not be afraid to be yourself.
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You are sure that you want older women, now the problem is you are young and you do not know how to attract older women. Here are some helpful tips in attracting mature women.
Show that you are sincerely interested. Older women do not want to guess or assume, they’ve seen how men are especially those who just want to play around and just beating around the bush. Older women know what they want and they want to meet men who know what they want and know how to sincerely express they are interested. Be assertive and make her know that you know what you want. Showing your real and sincere intention is the way to go in attracting mature women.
Be presentable. Women especially those older want to go out with men who are presentable and who knows how to dress well. Most older women are decent and of course they prefer men who dress and look decent. A shave and new haircut can do wonders. Put attention to your hygiene too. Wear clean clothes and shoes. Do not forget to pay attention to your fingernails. First impression do last, so appear fresh and well-groomed to succeed in attracting mature women.
Be confident and have faith in yourself. Nothing is more attractive than a man who knows his worth, have faith in himself and oozing with confidence. Since older women are confident themselves, they do not want men who are insecure and do not believe in themselves. Yes, you are younger but that doesn’t mean you have nothing to offer. Think and believe that you are attractive and you have good qualities that can attract older women. It’s all about carrying yourself with confidence, having the right attitude and a positive mind-set. It takes guts and confidence to be successful in attracting mature women.
Make her feel that she’s gorgeous and attractive. Women of all ages want to feel they are gorgeous and admired. Compliment her and let her know her best qualities that you really admire. But of course this will only work if you are sincere with your admiration of her so be truthful and sincere with your compliments.
Acquire more skills, knowledge and experiences. You have an advantage being young because you have the energy and the time to acquire more skills, knowledge and experiences so get the most out of it. Learn or acquire new skills or hobbies like playing a musical instrument, cooking, photography, sports, etc. not only to impress older women but to make yourself more interesting. Travel or visit new and more exciting places to acquire more knowledge and experiences. Read more and be updated with current events or latest news. The more places you visit and the more things you know, the more subject you can come up during conversations. Older women love to learn new things from other people so be that person who can teach her new things. Being interesting is one way to achieve your goal of attracting mature women.
Make her laugh. Older women tend to be more serious so it is great if you can make her laugh to help her loosen up a bit. Older women may consider going out with younger guys because young men are fun to be with and they have less issues and baggage. Sense of humor or having fun doesn’t mean you are not serious but you just want to show a side of you that is light, happy and funny. In attracting mature women, sense of humor is important.
You have to know that impressing and attracting mature women does not mean you have to be a different person. You are just creating a better version of yourself to attract women and not pretending to be someone you are not. Do not be afraid to be yourself.
Do you want more guides on how to be successful in attracting women? Visit The Tao of Badass
Tips for a More Enjoyable First Date- What Men Should Know
Dating should be fun but for most people, first dates make them anxious
maybe because they want everything to be perfect. A terrible first date
could ruin your chance of creating a wonderful relationship with your
date and so you want everything to be perfect to have a great start.
First dates can be stressful if you do not know what to do. The
following tips can be very helpful if you want a more enjoyable first
date.
How to prepare for your first date?
To make a more enjoyable first date, you have to do your homework and know some basic details about your date. It would be too awkward if you happen to ask the wrong questions. Focus on your date and prepare on how to make her comfortable on your first date. Some men do practice their lines before their first date and there is nothing wrong if you will do the same. Turning the focus on your date can help you forget your nervousness and you’ll eventually become more at ease.
To create a more enjoyable first date, avoid Friday night date to avoid the pressure. Keep the date short to be more considerate of each other. If you or your date can’t feel any connection, keeping the date short will save you both of the awkwardness. Keeping the date short doesn’t mean you have to be rude if there is no spark on your first date. Treat every first date as an opportunity to expand your network of friends. Who knows, your date might offer to introduce you to her friend who could be a better fit for you. Be a gentleman and treat every first date with good manners. If there is a connection and you are both attracted to each other, keeping the first date short means there is something to look forward to, which is your second date. The anticipation for the next date can be very interesting for both of you.
Be punctual on your first date or call if something came up and you cannot make it on time. It is important that you make her feel that you respect her time and remember that being considerate or respectful of your date makes you more attractive.
What to wear on your first date?
The clothes you wear on your first date affects the level of your attractiveness. Dress sharp and look your best on your first date. Most women love to go out with a guy who dress well but this does not mean you have to spend a fortune for your new wardrobe. Wear something presentable, clean and appropriate for your date. Wear clothes that flatter your best physical features and minimize your less attractive features. Of course to have a more enjoyable first date, you also have to be comfortable and confident wearing your outfit because you do not want to feel tense or uncomfortable with your outfit while on a date.
Experts recommend that men should stick to dark-colored pair of jeans, long sleeve collared shirt with slight patterns or not too loud patterns and with loose tie. For a casual look, a nice polo shirt and sports jacket are another option. Tucking in your shirt makes you appear clean and presentable. Avoid wearing khakis which makes you look like going to a workplace than a date. Avoid loud prints and stripes if you want to look good and impress your date. Choosing loud colors can be distracting, if you want to stand out, choose the colors that are most likely to attract women like white, black, grey, blue and green. Colors like cobalt blue and maroon can be attractive too. Flashy clothing or accessories are not appropriate for a date because it will draw the attention away from you.
Of course do not overlook your hygiene. Pay attention to your footwear, have your shoes polished to make them look clean and wear the appropriate socks. Put attention to your hair, your fingernails and nose hairs. If ever you end up wearing the wrong outfit on your date, relax and just be yourself and enjoy the moment with your date.
Where to go on your first date?
Most people choose to spend their first dates on places where they can dine or sit opposite each other to talk and know each other better but the problem with this setting is that the date may become more of an interview than a date. Meeting for the first time on this kind of setting can be too formal and you both may find it difficult to come up with subjects to talk about that may lead to long silence or awkwardness.
To have a more enjoyable first date, it is best to include enjoyable activities that you can do together like attending a cooking class, painting class, country fair, bowling, biking, ice skating, karaoke, etc. or visit places where there are many things that you both can look at and talk about like museums, zoos, theme parks, underground aquariums, botanical gardens etc. A walk in the mall or shopping for small things is also a good way to spend your first date and get to know each other better. Talking while doing things together is not only enjoyable but it creates new experiences and memories. As much as possible avoid concerts, plays and movies on your first date. Dates should allow you to talk, interact and connect with each other and it is hard to accomplish that if the environment is too noisy or you are both busy watching a movie or a play.
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How to prepare for your first date?
To make a more enjoyable first date, you have to do your homework and know some basic details about your date. It would be too awkward if you happen to ask the wrong questions. Focus on your date and prepare on how to make her comfortable on your first date. Some men do practice their lines before their first date and there is nothing wrong if you will do the same. Turning the focus on your date can help you forget your nervousness and you’ll eventually become more at ease.
To create a more enjoyable first date, avoid Friday night date to avoid the pressure. Keep the date short to be more considerate of each other. If you or your date can’t feel any connection, keeping the date short will save you both of the awkwardness. Keeping the date short doesn’t mean you have to be rude if there is no spark on your first date. Treat every first date as an opportunity to expand your network of friends. Who knows, your date might offer to introduce you to her friend who could be a better fit for you. Be a gentleman and treat every first date with good manners. If there is a connection and you are both attracted to each other, keeping the first date short means there is something to look forward to, which is your second date. The anticipation for the next date can be very interesting for both of you.
Be punctual on your first date or call if something came up and you cannot make it on time. It is important that you make her feel that you respect her time and remember that being considerate or respectful of your date makes you more attractive.
What to wear on your first date?
The clothes you wear on your first date affects the level of your attractiveness. Dress sharp and look your best on your first date. Most women love to go out with a guy who dress well but this does not mean you have to spend a fortune for your new wardrobe. Wear something presentable, clean and appropriate for your date. Wear clothes that flatter your best physical features and minimize your less attractive features. Of course to have a more enjoyable first date, you also have to be comfortable and confident wearing your outfit because you do not want to feel tense or uncomfortable with your outfit while on a date.
Experts recommend that men should stick to dark-colored pair of jeans, long sleeve collared shirt with slight patterns or not too loud patterns and with loose tie. For a casual look, a nice polo shirt and sports jacket are another option. Tucking in your shirt makes you appear clean and presentable. Avoid wearing khakis which makes you look like going to a workplace than a date. Avoid loud prints and stripes if you want to look good and impress your date. Choosing loud colors can be distracting, if you want to stand out, choose the colors that are most likely to attract women like white, black, grey, blue and green. Colors like cobalt blue and maroon can be attractive too. Flashy clothing or accessories are not appropriate for a date because it will draw the attention away from you.
Of course do not overlook your hygiene. Pay attention to your footwear, have your shoes polished to make them look clean and wear the appropriate socks. Put attention to your hair, your fingernails and nose hairs. If ever you end up wearing the wrong outfit on your date, relax and just be yourself and enjoy the moment with your date.
Where to go on your first date?
Most people choose to spend their first dates on places where they can dine or sit opposite each other to talk and know each other better but the problem with this setting is that the date may become more of an interview than a date. Meeting for the first time on this kind of setting can be too formal and you both may find it difficult to come up with subjects to talk about that may lead to long silence or awkwardness.
To have a more enjoyable first date, it is best to include enjoyable activities that you can do together like attending a cooking class, painting class, country fair, bowling, biking, ice skating, karaoke, etc. or visit places where there are many things that you both can look at and talk about like museums, zoos, theme parks, underground aquariums, botanical gardens etc. A walk in the mall or shopping for small things is also a good way to spend your first date and get to know each other better. Talking while doing things together is not only enjoyable but it creates new experiences and memories. As much as possible avoid concerts, plays and movies on your first date. Dates should allow you to talk, interact and connect with each other and it is hard to accomplish that if the environment is too noisy or you are both busy watching a movie or a play.
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Tips in Dating Younger Women Successfully
When men are getting older and still single, there aren’t many women
their age still available for them and so they can’t help but date women
half their age or women in their late 20s or early 30s. For men in
their 40s and those approaching their 50s, dating younger women is
something they cannot avoid. Of course, they are more than happy to meet
younger women, not to mention younger women are more appealing,
exciting and attractive.
While you may consider yourself a competent guy in the field of dating, the age difference could be a challenge and you may find yourself wondering if you can handle dating younger women. There are things that you have to bear in mind to successfully date women younger than you. Here are some helpful tips in dating younger women:
Let your maturity and wisdom shines. While most women are complaining how immature most younger men are and how they wish them to grow up, you have a great advantage by being mature and full of wisdom due to your age. You have more experience and you’ve worked hard to reach the maturity and wisdom you have now so let them work to your advantage. Let those traits shine and put them in display when dating younger women. Most young women find an accomplished man full of maturity and wisdom sexy and irresistibly attractive.
Treat her the same way you would treat someone of your own age. Yes, you are older and mature but this does not mean you have to treat her like a child. Although she is younger, she’s not a child. Keep in mind that despite her age, she is also an adult like you so treat her as one. She is not your daughter who needs preaching or scolding. Dating in general whether with younger women or with women your age is challenging enough so why make this dating more stressful by stressing on the age difference. Treat her as your equal to make the dating more fun and exciting. She may be younger but she is also an adult and she is capable of giving you her genuine feelings like any other older woman.
Be honest about your life. Since you are older, it is normal that you’ve been through a lot and you have more life experiences than her. Be honest about having kids or being divorced. Although you do not consider those things as issues, some younger women may consider them issues so it is better to be honest with her about those things right from the start. Not being honest with her can make things more complicated. When dating younger women, do not be afraid to open up, she may be younger but that does not mean she lacks empathy or she cannot relate to your situation.
Do not assume that you always have to take good care of her. She may be younger but she’s not totally inexperienced and unschooled in everything. She is a grown up independent woman who knows what she wants and she also has the capability to take good care of you. If she offer to split the bill on one of your dates, you can politely say that you want to treat her but if she prefer to split the bill then let her. However, if you are really uncomfortable splitting the bill, just ask her to treat you next time. If she is a good cook, let her make you a great meal to make her feel that she can also take care of you. Dating younger women doesn’t have to be like raising a daughter. She is your date, not your daughter.
You can be generous but avoid showing off. Being older, it is normal to be more financially stable than her. Being a gentleman, it is normal to be generous when dating younger women but being generous is different from showing off. Flaunting your fat wallet or the extravagant things that you can do for her may offend her or it may push her to take advantage of you. Be realistic with the situation and being older you should know how to impress women sincerely with your heart rather than with your fat wallet. There is nothing wrong in being generous as long as it is coupled with a sincere heart and not because you just want to show off.
Be confident. There’s nothing to be ashamed of your age when dating younger women. If she agreed to have a date with you, she must be tired of inexperienced younger men and she is ready for a change. You have the advantage being older than the men she used to date so be confident and take advantage of what you have and what you can offer. Instead of feeling awkward and uncomfortable, be confident that you have the means, the experience and the skills to impress a woman younger than you.
Live a healthy life. In dating younger women, you have to keep up with their energy and to be able to do that you have to be healthy. It is important to keep a healthy weight not only to look good but to be physically fit. Know the best exercise, physical activities and diet good for your age. It is not too late to live a healthy life to enjoy dating younger women.
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While you may consider yourself a competent guy in the field of dating, the age difference could be a challenge and you may find yourself wondering if you can handle dating younger women. There are things that you have to bear in mind to successfully date women younger than you. Here are some helpful tips in dating younger women:
Let your maturity and wisdom shines. While most women are complaining how immature most younger men are and how they wish them to grow up, you have a great advantage by being mature and full of wisdom due to your age. You have more experience and you’ve worked hard to reach the maturity and wisdom you have now so let them work to your advantage. Let those traits shine and put them in display when dating younger women. Most young women find an accomplished man full of maturity and wisdom sexy and irresistibly attractive.
Treat her the same way you would treat someone of your own age. Yes, you are older and mature but this does not mean you have to treat her like a child. Although she is younger, she’s not a child. Keep in mind that despite her age, she is also an adult like you so treat her as one. She is not your daughter who needs preaching or scolding. Dating in general whether with younger women or with women your age is challenging enough so why make this dating more stressful by stressing on the age difference. Treat her as your equal to make the dating more fun and exciting. She may be younger but she is also an adult and she is capable of giving you her genuine feelings like any other older woman.
Be honest about your life. Since you are older, it is normal that you’ve been through a lot and you have more life experiences than her. Be honest about having kids or being divorced. Although you do not consider those things as issues, some younger women may consider them issues so it is better to be honest with her about those things right from the start. Not being honest with her can make things more complicated. When dating younger women, do not be afraid to open up, she may be younger but that does not mean she lacks empathy or she cannot relate to your situation.
Do not assume that you always have to take good care of her. She may be younger but she’s not totally inexperienced and unschooled in everything. She is a grown up independent woman who knows what she wants and she also has the capability to take good care of you. If she offer to split the bill on one of your dates, you can politely say that you want to treat her but if she prefer to split the bill then let her. However, if you are really uncomfortable splitting the bill, just ask her to treat you next time. If she is a good cook, let her make you a great meal to make her feel that she can also take care of you. Dating younger women doesn’t have to be like raising a daughter. She is your date, not your daughter.
You can be generous but avoid showing off. Being older, it is normal to be more financially stable than her. Being a gentleman, it is normal to be generous when dating younger women but being generous is different from showing off. Flaunting your fat wallet or the extravagant things that you can do for her may offend her or it may push her to take advantage of you. Be realistic with the situation and being older you should know how to impress women sincerely with your heart rather than with your fat wallet. There is nothing wrong in being generous as long as it is coupled with a sincere heart and not because you just want to show off.
Be confident. There’s nothing to be ashamed of your age when dating younger women. If she agreed to have a date with you, she must be tired of inexperienced younger men and she is ready for a change. You have the advantage being older than the men she used to date so be confident and take advantage of what you have and what you can offer. Instead of feeling awkward and uncomfortable, be confident that you have the means, the experience and the skills to impress a woman younger than you.
Live a healthy life. In dating younger women, you have to keep up with their energy and to be able to do that you have to be healthy. It is important to keep a healthy weight not only to look good but to be physically fit. Know the best exercise, physical activities and diet good for your age. It is not too late to live a healthy life to enjoy dating younger women.
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Get in Touch with Your Feminine Side, So You Can Get Inside Hers
Some women are just out there waiting to be hit on, and they’re
sending signals. You just have to pick up on the signals, then striking
up a conversation is a piece of cake because that’s what the woman was
waiting for from anybody. It might as well be you!
Go someplace where people hang out, like a bar or bookstore. If there’s a woman at the bar who’s just sort of looking bored, who keeps looking around the room or even getting up to walk around the room, that woman is looking for action. Go up to her and comment on something about the place, like “Hi. It sure is quiet in here tonight.” Or “Hi, I can’t believe how packed this place is.” She was just waiting for someone to talk to, and this is all she’ll need to be off and running. Let her lead and follow along! Maybe throw in a comment like, “What’s a beautiful woman like you doing sitting here all alone?” Don’t say that at first, because women hear cheesy lines like that all the time. But if you say it a few minutes after conversation has started, it erases any doubt from her mind as to whether you’re hitting on her or you’re just someone who’s making idle conversation but not looking to meet. Give her the cheesy pick-up line that includes a compliment – and women love compliments! – and she’ll know what you’re after.
At a bookstore, check out the chicks over by the magazine racks. If there’s one who just keeps browsing titles, idly picking up a mag and flipping through the pages, all the while looking around to check out the other people there – that’s a gal just waiting for someone to take notice of HER. Do it, and you’ll find a woman ready and willing to talk to you – and probably hoping you’ll ask for her number!
Just go up to her, tell her the magazine she’s reading looks interesting, or that you already read that and there’s a great article in there, or (if it’s a woman’s magazine) that you’ve been tempted to read “Cosmo” or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags tell women. Ask her if she thinks men would find any useful information about women in there. She’ll be off and running with stories of how silly the articles are, or how they might be interesting to men. Talk a while, and then ask her to sit down for coffee to chat more. Then ask for her number. She was looking to meet, so she’ll be more than willing to hand over those digits!
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Go someplace where people hang out, like a bar or bookstore. If there’s a woman at the bar who’s just sort of looking bored, who keeps looking around the room or even getting up to walk around the room, that woman is looking for action. Go up to her and comment on something about the place, like “Hi. It sure is quiet in here tonight.” Or “Hi, I can’t believe how packed this place is.” She was just waiting for someone to talk to, and this is all she’ll need to be off and running. Let her lead and follow along! Maybe throw in a comment like, “What’s a beautiful woman like you doing sitting here all alone?” Don’t say that at first, because women hear cheesy lines like that all the time. But if you say it a few minutes after conversation has started, it erases any doubt from her mind as to whether you’re hitting on her or you’re just someone who’s making idle conversation but not looking to meet. Give her the cheesy pick-up line that includes a compliment – and women love compliments! – and she’ll know what you’re after.
At a bookstore, check out the chicks over by the magazine racks. If there’s one who just keeps browsing titles, idly picking up a mag and flipping through the pages, all the while looking around to check out the other people there – that’s a gal just waiting for someone to take notice of HER. Do it, and you’ll find a woman ready and willing to talk to you – and probably hoping you’ll ask for her number!
Just go up to her, tell her the magazine she’s reading looks interesting, or that you already read that and there’s a great article in there, or (if it’s a woman’s magazine) that you’ve been tempted to read “Cosmo” or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags tell women. Ask her if she thinks men would find any useful information about women in there. She’ll be off and running with stories of how silly the articles are, or how they might be interesting to men. Talk a while, and then ask her to sit down for coffee to chat more. Then ask for her number. She was looking to meet, so she’ll be more than willing to hand over those digits!
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3 Wonderful Ideas to Give Your Woman a Memorable Valentines Day
Valentine is just around the corner and of course you want to give your woman a memorable valentines day.
The traditional flowers and chocolates will always make women smile
but if you want her to smile every time she thinks about this year’s
valentine day, you need to put in some real effort to make her feel
really special on day of the hearts.
There are a number of ways to give your woman a memorable valentines day. The ideas can vary from simple to extravagant but always remember that it is the thought that counts. You can give her simple things but if you put in some real effort and pour all you heart in preparing that simple gift, it can be more meaningful than something which is really expensive. Here are some tips to give your woman a memorable valentines day:
Romantic getaway. If your woman is a working girl, the everyday life in the city might be very stressful to her. It would really surprise her to get away from the city and spend time with you in a romantic place for valentines day. While most couples are in the city having dinner or dancing with their partners, you are enjoying a quiet romantic place away from the city with your woman. Of course you have to consider what your woman loves to do. Does she loves fishing, stargazing, strolling in the woods or walking in the wild side? Spending time away from the daily noise of the city can be very relaxing, romantic and memorable.
A breakfast in bed and a bubble bath for her. Most couples spend Valentines Day in the evening after their work but for a change why not start celebrating valentine early in the morning and give your woman a memorable valentines day. Surprise her with a nice breakfast in bed. Nothing is sweeter than having a man who wakes up early and serve breakfast for her in bed. This is not only romantic but will also set her moods in good vibes throughout the rest of the day. After a romantic breakfast whisper to her ears that a bubble bath is waiting for her. Scented candles are all over the bathroom and in the corners of the tub and lovely flower petals on the tub while you are holding a basket of massage oils ready to give her a bubble bath. She will bring this memory for the remainder of the day and when you both see each other again after work, things will be more exciting and romantic.
Convey your feelings through music. If you are both music lovers, the best way to express your love is through music. Have you noticed how music can make a movie or a scene in a movie really romantic? This valentine idea is not as simple as buying an audio CD of a specific singer and simply giving it to your girl. You have to put some real effort by personalizing the audio CD. Make a beautiful personalized cover that your girl will really love. Carefully look back at the start of your relationship and make a compilation of songs that serve as reminders of your wonderful love life with her. What was the hit song then when you first met each other? What song was playing when you had your first dance? What was the theme song of the first movie you’ve watched together? You can add your own messages or narration in the beginning of each song. This is definitely one way to give your woman a memorable valentines day. This will bring back old good memories in your relationship and she will be touched and amazed with your efforts.
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There are a number of ways to give your woman a memorable valentines day. The ideas can vary from simple to extravagant but always remember that it is the thought that counts. You can give her simple things but if you put in some real effort and pour all you heart in preparing that simple gift, it can be more meaningful than something which is really expensive. Here are some tips to give your woman a memorable valentines day:
Romantic getaway. If your woman is a working girl, the everyday life in the city might be very stressful to her. It would really surprise her to get away from the city and spend time with you in a romantic place for valentines day. While most couples are in the city having dinner or dancing with their partners, you are enjoying a quiet romantic place away from the city with your woman. Of course you have to consider what your woman loves to do. Does she loves fishing, stargazing, strolling in the woods or walking in the wild side? Spending time away from the daily noise of the city can be very relaxing, romantic and memorable.
A breakfast in bed and a bubble bath for her. Most couples spend Valentines Day in the evening after their work but for a change why not start celebrating valentine early in the morning and give your woman a memorable valentines day. Surprise her with a nice breakfast in bed. Nothing is sweeter than having a man who wakes up early and serve breakfast for her in bed. This is not only romantic but will also set her moods in good vibes throughout the rest of the day. After a romantic breakfast whisper to her ears that a bubble bath is waiting for her. Scented candles are all over the bathroom and in the corners of the tub and lovely flower petals on the tub while you are holding a basket of massage oils ready to give her a bubble bath. She will bring this memory for the remainder of the day and when you both see each other again after work, things will be more exciting and romantic.
Convey your feelings through music. If you are both music lovers, the best way to express your love is through music. Have you noticed how music can make a movie or a scene in a movie really romantic? This valentine idea is not as simple as buying an audio CD of a specific singer and simply giving it to your girl. You have to put some real effort by personalizing the audio CD. Make a beautiful personalized cover that your girl will really love. Carefully look back at the start of your relationship and make a compilation of songs that serve as reminders of your wonderful love life with her. What was the hit song then when you first met each other? What song was playing when you had your first dance? What was the theme song of the first movie you’ve watched together? You can add your own messages or narration in the beginning of each song. This is definitely one way to give your woman a memorable valentines day. This will bring back old good memories in your relationship and she will be touched and amazed with your efforts.
There are countless ways to give your woman a memorable valentines day. Always remember that you need to be creative and always include your heart to make her valentine really special and memorable. For more dating ideas visit 300 Creative Dates
A Man’s Guide for a Perfect Valentine’s Date
This is the season for all lovers and everybody wants a perfect valentine’s date.
Women are excited about February because it is the love month and men
are restless thinking about how to make this day as perfect as he want
it to be. Planning for a date on this love month is not that hard if you
know how and here are some tips:
Give yourself enough time to prepare. Do not put yourself in a stressful situation, so avoid the last minute rush and plan as early as possible. There are details and things that you might forget if you are cramming and in panic mode. If you are planning for a dinner, make early reservations at your favorite restaurant to make sure everything will happen as planned. It takes away your worries if you act early and things will be as smooth as you planned. Plan early to make sure you will have a perfect valentine’s date with the special woman in your life.
Choose a perfect gift for her. Although Valentine’s Day is not about material things, it is still sweet to express your love with gifts. It is not the price but it’s the thought that counts. Give her flowers; do not forget this because women always love receiving flowers. It is not a perfect valentine’s date if you forgot her flowers. Look for a special floral arrangement or give her flowers that best describe her personality and your feelings for her. Chocolates, perfume and jewelries are also popular gifts for Valentine’s Day. Although those are popular gift items, you can add a personal touch to those gifts to make it unique and more special. Girl things like a salon, spa or massage certificates are also perfect gifts for women.
Be creative. Aside from the traditional flowers and dinner on Valentine’s Day, you need to think something new and be creative to have a perfect valentine’s date. This is the best occasion to do something different with your special someone. Think of something that you both don’t usually do but love to do together.
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Give yourself enough time to prepare. Do not put yourself in a stressful situation, so avoid the last minute rush and plan as early as possible. There are details and things that you might forget if you are cramming and in panic mode. If you are planning for a dinner, make early reservations at your favorite restaurant to make sure everything will happen as planned. It takes away your worries if you act early and things will be as smooth as you planned. Plan early to make sure you will have a perfect valentine’s date with the special woman in your life.
Choose a perfect gift for her. Although Valentine’s Day is not about material things, it is still sweet to express your love with gifts. It is not the price but it’s the thought that counts. Give her flowers; do not forget this because women always love receiving flowers. It is not a perfect valentine’s date if you forgot her flowers. Look for a special floral arrangement or give her flowers that best describe her personality and your feelings for her. Chocolates, perfume and jewelries are also popular gifts for Valentine’s Day. Although those are popular gift items, you can add a personal touch to those gifts to make it unique and more special. Girl things like a salon, spa or massage certificates are also perfect gifts for women.
Be creative. Aside from the traditional flowers and dinner on Valentine’s Day, you need to think something new and be creative to have a perfect valentine’s date. This is the best occasion to do something different with your special someone. Think of something that you both don’t usually do but love to do together.
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Ultimate Attraction- Tips to Achieve Success in Attracting Women
To have outrageous success with women, you’ll need to speak their
language. But it takes the right material to educate you on such a
cryptic matter.
After you’ve deciphered the inner workings of the female mind, you’ll totally light up her attraction circuitry right under her radar. You can get the know-how on attraction at:
Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series for Men
Learn what the masters of seduction know so you can go forth and conquer!
It’s a given in the dating scene that women naturally align themselves with guys who occupy a higher place on the proverbial food chain. These guys are typically referred to as the ALPHA MALES.
As you probably know, they lord over other men and just smack of social value, which is like Kryptonite to an AFC. The PUA on the other hand has it running through his veins.
This type of man is looked up to by many, and all the women in the immediate area are irresistibly drawn to him. What’s ironic is that your veritable “top dog” doesn’t necessarily have the looks of a celebrity, the body of a weightlifter, or the wealth of a CEO.
In fact, lots of materially and politically potent men don’t have the slightest clue to generating genuine and lasting attraction. Women might think they’ll fall for a good -looking guy, but keeping her around takes MORE than that.
Let’s go over some of the things that will make you more than just an insignificant blip in a woman’s consciousness:
Talking the talk
Your voice is a powerful tool you can use to make women putty in your hands. Think about it – a well-modulated manner of speaking is absolute dynamite to women.
While not of all of us are gifted with a deep set of vocal cords, you can still pull this off. You just have to avoid making some key mistakes that could undo your game.
It’s a common tendency to speak in a wimpy, high-pitched voice when we’re nervous or flustered. As a result, you’ll sound girly, and lack confidence.
MAJOR TURN-OFF!
Don’t let your voice betray your nervousness. Practice with the way you talk so you don’t give away that you’re not as collected as you seem.
Here’s a suggestion: get accustomed to controlling your voice through some daily exercises you can repeat several times. Stop pulling your voice out of your throat; instead, make it register deep down in your gut.
Pushing your voice out from the abdominal area adds power. But don’t try speaking in this manner right off the bat. Do some humming or even singing exercises so that the sound you produce comes from your diaphragm.
Get used to speaking properly all the time until you’re no longer “faking it”. As such, having a pleasant voice will become a natural part of your personality. Ultimately, you’ll feel more confident in the fact that your deep, evenly paced and masculine voice will greatly affect someone’s reactions, specifically with the ladies.
Walking The Walk
Of course, your voice should also match the way you move. Body language is a huge, make-or-break factor that will INSTANTLY tell a woman what kind of guy you are.
Is an alpha male fidgety? Does nervous energy manifest strong leadership qualities?
Definitely NOT. A high-value guy sets himself apart by using his body to express his winning attitude.
He’s relaxed and at ease, but never leans into anyone’s active space. In the same way, a PUA would automatically blow his approach if he ever leaned into a woman’s “territorial bubble” because that signifies that he’s out to impress her. That’s not how an alpha male rolls.
Think about how it looks from her perspective. You’re waiting for what she has to say, and your voice is too weak that you have to lean towards her just to be heard. That’s hardly the mark of a high-value male.
If anything, you should stand with your feet at shoulder length apart. Not too wide that you look overly cocky, but not too close that you seem sorry for the space you’re occupying.
As our mothers, teachers and countless figures of authority have told us in the past, slouching is for losers. A weak, rounded posture will cause “WIMP” to be written all over you.
Also, make large, sweeping movements that appear natural, as opposed to quick gestures that make it look like you’re living in a stop-motion animation TV show (watch “Gumby” to see what I mean).
This also applies to the way you walk, which should be SMOOTH and evenly paced. Let your arms swing slightly, and don’t allow them to flail around.
Alpha Male Stylin’ 101
Hygiene and fashion form another important aspect of maintaining your social value. Essentially, what women want is a guy who’s MATURE enough to groom and dress like a confident man.
Self-respecting women won’t bother wasting any time with a man who doesn’t pay attention to DETAILS. For example, if you had poorly managed teeth or reeked of body odor, do you think she’ll want to know what the rest of you is like?
Don’t think that any guy is the exception to good grooming and dressing sensibly. No man is going to land a real relationship if he places himself above this simple dating prerequisite.
Even if you’re interesting, witty, and have a great sense of humor, a woman can’t appreciate all of that under a nasty exterior of unkempt and unwashed hair, or if you dress like a post-apocalyptic refugee.
The overall way you present yourself is what matters here. Don’t let a horrid sense of hygiene and style get in the way of meeting the dolled-up, sweet smelling women that attract you.
It’s only fair that you meet them halfway. It’s not like you’d be interested to go out with someone who was too lazy to brush her teeth, shower or shave her legs, am I right?
So make it a habit to be always meticulously CLEAN. If you ever want a beautiful woman to snuggle up against your body, you’re gonna have to make that EFFORT.
Here’s a basic, top-to-toe list of things to watch out for:
As well as dressing and grooming yourself in a way that naturally elicits RESPECT from others.
You’ll definitely look at yourself differently, and the women around you will follow suit and take you seriously.
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It’s a given in the dating scene that women naturally align themselves with guys who occupy a higher place on the proverbial food chain. These guys are typically referred to as the ALPHA MALES.
As you probably know, they lord over other men and just smack of social value, which is like Kryptonite to an AFC. The PUA on the other hand has it running through his veins.
This type of man is looked up to by many, and all the women in the immediate area are irresistibly drawn to him. What’s ironic is that your veritable “top dog” doesn’t necessarily have the looks of a celebrity, the body of a weightlifter, or the wealth of a CEO.
In fact, lots of materially and politically potent men don’t have the slightest clue to generating genuine and lasting attraction. Women might think they’ll fall for a good -looking guy, but keeping her around takes MORE than that.
Let’s go over some of the things that will make you more than just an insignificant blip in a woman’s consciousness:
Talking the talk
Your voice is a powerful tool you can use to make women putty in your hands. Think about it – a well-modulated manner of speaking is absolute dynamite to women.
While not of all of us are gifted with a deep set of vocal cords, you can still pull this off. You just have to avoid making some key mistakes that could undo your game.
It’s a common tendency to speak in a wimpy, high-pitched voice when we’re nervous or flustered. As a result, you’ll sound girly, and lack confidence.
MAJOR TURN-OFF!
Don’t let your voice betray your nervousness. Practice with the way you talk so you don’t give away that you’re not as collected as you seem.
Here’s a suggestion: get accustomed to controlling your voice through some daily exercises you can repeat several times. Stop pulling your voice out of your throat; instead, make it register deep down in your gut.
Pushing your voice out from the abdominal area adds power. But don’t try speaking in this manner right off the bat. Do some humming or even singing exercises so that the sound you produce comes from your diaphragm.
Get used to speaking properly all the time until you’re no longer “faking it”. As such, having a pleasant voice will become a natural part of your personality. Ultimately, you’ll feel more confident in the fact that your deep, evenly paced and masculine voice will greatly affect someone’s reactions, specifically with the ladies.
Walking The Walk
Of course, your voice should also match the way you move. Body language is a huge, make-or-break factor that will INSTANTLY tell a woman what kind of guy you are.
Is an alpha male fidgety? Does nervous energy manifest strong leadership qualities?
Definitely NOT. A high-value guy sets himself apart by using his body to express his winning attitude.
He’s relaxed and at ease, but never leans into anyone’s active space. In the same way, a PUA would automatically blow his approach if he ever leaned into a woman’s “territorial bubble” because that signifies that he’s out to impress her. That’s not how an alpha male rolls.
Think about how it looks from her perspective. You’re waiting for what she has to say, and your voice is too weak that you have to lean towards her just to be heard. That’s hardly the mark of a high-value male.
If anything, you should stand with your feet at shoulder length apart. Not too wide that you look overly cocky, but not too close that you seem sorry for the space you’re occupying.
As our mothers, teachers and countless figures of authority have told us in the past, slouching is for losers. A weak, rounded posture will cause “WIMP” to be written all over you.
Also, make large, sweeping movements that appear natural, as opposed to quick gestures that make it look like you’re living in a stop-motion animation TV show (watch “Gumby” to see what I mean).
This also applies to the way you walk, which should be SMOOTH and evenly paced. Let your arms swing slightly, and don’t allow them to flail around.
Alpha Male Stylin’ 101
Hygiene and fashion form another important aspect of maintaining your social value. Essentially, what women want is a guy who’s MATURE enough to groom and dress like a confident man.
Self-respecting women won’t bother wasting any time with a man who doesn’t pay attention to DETAILS. For example, if you had poorly managed teeth or reeked of body odor, do you think she’ll want to know what the rest of you is like?
Don’t think that any guy is the exception to good grooming and dressing sensibly. No man is going to land a real relationship if he places himself above this simple dating prerequisite.
Even if you’re interesting, witty, and have a great sense of humor, a woman can’t appreciate all of that under a nasty exterior of unkempt and unwashed hair, or if you dress like a post-apocalyptic refugee.
The overall way you present yourself is what matters here. Don’t let a horrid sense of hygiene and style get in the way of meeting the dolled-up, sweet smelling women that attract you.
It’s only fair that you meet them halfway. It’s not like you’d be interested to go out with someone who was too lazy to brush her teeth, shower or shave her legs, am I right?
So make it a habit to be always meticulously CLEAN. If you ever want a beautiful woman to snuggle up against your body, you’re gonna have to make that EFFORT.
Here’s a basic, top-to-toe list of things to watch out for:
- Consult with a reputable stylist on which hairstyle suits you in terms of age and body frame. He/she will be able to figure out if you’re better off growing out your hair, or if the clean-cut look is more appropriate.
- A dentist can clean your teeth and advise you on best dental practices to keep your smile looking bright. Also, don’t forget to brush after every meal, floss often and use mouthwash.
- Moisturize on a daily basis. I understand that there are many guys out there that think moisturizing is the first step on a slippery slope to femininity, but trust me, women like guys that look after their skin. If you are around the same age as her, it pays to look like her boyfriend rather than her father. A guy that looks after his assets is one that is going to continue to look good as he gets older, rather than looking worn down and weather-beaten.
- Bathe once or twice a day at the very least. There’s no excuse for smelling bad, so pay attention to the areas that need adequate washing. Use a good deodorant, and if necessary, keep a spray deodorant in your car or work bag for times when you need a little freshen up. Like I said, a woman won’t be enticed to get in close proximity with someone who doesn’t smell good.
- Get a friend to give you an unbiased opinion on the kind of clothes that will suit your body type. Have him or her check out the stuff in your closet to figure out which clothes you can keep in active duty or retire permanently. If that’s not an option, drop by a decent clothing store and have the staff guide you on which shirts, belts, pants and shoes will match you. A few basics that you can mix and match will set your wardrobe up really well, and enable you to mix new pieces with some of the older stuff you have saved. It may set you back a few hundred bucks, but you’ll thank yourself for doing it later on.
- Lastly, get off your ass and get some exercise. You don’t have to look like Dr. Manhattan from “Watchmen”, but you should at least show the world you’re making an effort to maintain your body and keep fit. Knowing that you’re taking care of yourself can greatly boost your self-confidence, lift your spirits, and help keep things in place. Not only will you look good, you will feel good! While fitness clubs are ok, try signing up for places that are fairly populated. Not only will you keep fit, you can also enhance your social skills by interacting with the fellow patrons (which include women, of course!).
As well as dressing and grooming yourself in a way that naturally elicits RESPECT from others.
You’ll definitely look at yourself differently, and the women around you will follow suit and take you seriously.
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This article comes to you courtesy of Meet Your Sweet
If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with the Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series, a new-generation 12-month series which will take you from frustrated to fulfilled in love.
Don’t stagger through attraction on your own. Become part of the Meet Your Sweet community and discover what it really takes to achieve powerful transformations in your approach to attraction and relationships.
Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series for Men
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