Some women are just out there waiting to be hit on, and they’re
sending signals. You just have to pick up on the signals, then striking
up a conversation is a piece of cake because that’s what the woman was
waiting for from anybody. It might as well be you!
Go someplace where people hang out, like a bar or bookstore. If
there’s a woman at the bar who’s just sort of looking bored, who keeps
looking around the room or even getting up to walk around the room, that
woman is looking for action. Go up to her and comment on something
about the place, like “Hi. It sure is quiet in here tonight.” Or “Hi, I
can’t believe how packed this place is.” She was just waiting for
someone to talk to, and this is all she’ll need to be off and running.
Let her lead and follow along! Maybe throw in a comment like, “What’s a
beautiful woman like you doing sitting here all alone?” Don’t say that
at first, because women hear cheesy lines like that all the time. But if
you say it a few minutes after conversation has started, it erases any
doubt from her mind as to whether you’re hitting on her or you’re just
someone who’s making idle conversation but not looking to meet. Give her
the cheesy pick-up line that includes a compliment – and women love
compliments! – and she’ll know what you’re after.
At a bookstore, check out the chicks over by the magazine racks. If
there’s one who just keeps browsing titles, idly picking up a mag and
flipping through the pages, all the while looking around to check out
the other people there – that’s a gal just waiting for someone to take
notice of HER. Do it, and you’ll find a woman ready and willing to talk
to you – and probably hoping you’ll ask for her number!
Just go up to her, tell her the magazine she’s reading looks
interesting, or that you already read that and there’s a great article
in there, or (if it’s a woman’s magazine) that you’ve been tempted to
read “Cosmo” or whatever it is just to see what kind of stuff those mags
tell women. Ask her if she thinks men would find any useful information
about women in there. She’ll be off and running with stories of how
silly the articles are, or how they might be interesting to men. Talk a
while, and then ask her to sit down for coffee to chat more. Then ask
for her number. She was looking to meet, so she’ll be more than willing
to hand over those digits!
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