You wish to have a relationship with a girl you like but eventually
you got friendzoned. It can be really frustrating when you are
interested in a romantic relationship with a girl but eventually she
wants you to just be friends. So how to avoid being friendzoned?
Be more mindful in picking your match. Being
friendzoned sometimes lies on picking the wrong match. If you keep
picking the girl not matched or not right for you, it is more likely
that you’ll be stuck on being friendzoned. There are signs and body
languages when women are interested in you. You must know how to read
those signs to know if she’s into you. It is best to pick a woman who is
more interested in you from the start to avoid being friendzoned.
Learn to be more attractive. Sometimes men are
friendzoned because they are not attractive enough to the opposite sex.
The good thing is that attractiveness is not an inborn trait, you can
learn how to be more attractive physically and personality wise. By
increasing the level of your attractiveness, you can avoid being
friendzoned. If you are too shy and lacks self-confidence, you can learn
to be more sociable and confident to increase your level of
attractiveness. Social skills can be very attractive to the opposite
sex. When it comes to physical appearance, there are physical aspects
that you can improve to be more attractive without a major plastic
surgery. You can improve your physical appearance by learning to dress
well and groom well. Keeping a good posture, staying fit or staying
physically active and healthy are attractive physical traits to most
women.
Make your intentions clear from the beginning. What
most men are afraid of is outright rejection so they sometimes choose
the safe path like acting as a friend because it is easier. This
approach creates confusion to the other party and uncertainty on your
part. Creating confusion from the start by not communicating what you
really want may hurt more in the end if you eventually get dumped or
friendzoned. It is best to be clear with what you want from the start
and face rejection upfront if she’s not interested than use friendship
as a cover but in reality you want more than that. You can move on as
soon as possible and find someone who is interested in you. Stop wasting
your time on someone who is not interested and get hurt in the end.
Make your intentions clear and avoid being friendzoned.
Don’t appear too desperate. Sometimes men are
friendzoned because they do all the work, give all the favors and act as
if they are too desperate to get the girl. There are women who want to
keep a man with this behavior as a friend or she wants you to stick
around without the responsibility of being your girlfriend. They want
the benefits from you but do not want the responsibility of having a
relationship with you. To avoid being friendzoned, stop being too nice
and doing all the work. It is best to allow the other person to value
you and do something for you in return. After all, a relationship will
not work if one is always the giver and the other is always the
receiver. Both should contribute to satisfy each other’s needs. Don’t
settle for less than what you deserve
